I met a girl at a friends wedding about a month ago - she seemed really positive and fun and we talked a bit (mostly about her) and i notice she kept sitting next to me, coming outside when I was..etc
she crossed my mind a few times since then so I got her number from my friends new wife, and gave her a call. She was driving at the time so I told her I'd call her back in 15 but she didn't answer. i text her to say i don't understand what i said in the matter of minutes to make her ignore me and that i would take it as if she is having a bad day... she text me back to let me know she was having a bad day and that she would be free the next day should i wish to call. i was busy all week so i called her at the end of the week but no answer. she text me a few days later apologising, & she was having it hard and busy with work, but saying i should call her sometime during the day. considering the trends so far i am no fool - she will not answer.
whats the deal with her?
2007-03-12 02:54:46 · 16 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave her your number and ask her to call you when she's got a moment. I think you're being a little bit insecure here. But at the same time, if she's really interested you should find out by letting her do some of the work too. Don't carry on calling endlessly, keep your dignity. Call once more and then leave the ball in her court. Good luck!
2007-03-12 03:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
third time is the charm right? call her. and tell you want HER to call you back.
mabye it i just a bad day, maybe she is just an a** and you should find some one else.
i would say try once more, and then... i would say, you could text her, and ask her, what is up. or just send her a text, and be like: applebees, 5:00 on friday. set up something, to talk. giver her at least 48 hours notice, so she can have time to set aside, and not give you the, oh, well, i forgot, and booked something... and if she is busy, ask if her plans can include you.
if no, then i would say, go out by yourself, and pick up a new one,
2007-03-12 10:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by smcopeland16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She honestly is having a bad week or she is invovled with someone!!! Girls will avoid calls at all cost when they are with someone else and then later text you back!!! But if their is no chance of noone else then maybe she was busy or like she said having a bad week! Good luck on that one! I say try to call again if no answer wait for her.
2007-03-12 10:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she has a boyfriend. That is how women act when they are avoiding someone or if they are dating someone. If she asks to be called at certain hours thats also a sign that she is acting suspicious. Give her one last try, leave your number in a message and see if she calls back. If not then thats all the proof you need.
2007-03-12 10:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she really is busy. But she also might just be scared or not really interested. Depends on what her story is. I know for the 1st couple years of my divorce I would think that I was ready and I would sort of do stuff like that. I was afraid of all that when it came right down to it.
2007-03-12 10:02:15 · answer #5 · answered by yako2b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she really was busy. Just call her again. I'm busy a lot and my boyfriend thinks I'm always ignoring him but I'm really not. We don't sit at the phone and wait for your calls, we're not stupid. We don't live our lives according to men. We do have our own life you know.
2007-03-12 09:58:26 · answer #6 · answered by Angel*Eyesz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her to a group outting. she may be pursuing someone else, but it's on the rocks. so... you can wait (if she's worth it) or you can drop it. If she won't answer text her saying. "Going to the movies with a few friends @ MOVIE TIME HERE, I would like it if you'd come! Meet outside the theater at TIME!"
2007-03-12 10:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by curry_lover4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may really just be busy or having things go on in her life right now. Give her another call and if she ignores it, move on. She isn't worth it.
2007-03-12 10:00:03 · answer #8 · answered by Jodi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is already in a relationship. seems like it avoiding you and then apoligizing and giving you some sort of excuse. you can do better than that trust me if she liked you and wanted to see you again she would be eager to answer the phone. good luck
2007-03-12 09:59:44 · answer #9 · answered by Krystina G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People have a lot going on some times. why give up before you even started. just be patient.
2007-03-12 10:00:08 · answer #10 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋