is it best to write them a letter, face to face, a card, what?
2007-03-12 02:47:44 · 27 answers · asked by Bunnygirl24 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definitely face to face! You're not going to look like an idiot. I can't recall one single instance of a woman telling me she loved me and thinking she was an idiot. If anything, it was thrilling because I was having those feelings myself.
Now, your love may not be returned; that's the risk involved. It's just a chance you'll have to take. Even so, he should respond by at least being flattered. If not, he's a punk and you don't need him anyway. Best Wishes!
2007-03-12 02:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by aquaman2964 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation. If it is someone you have been dating for a while, I would say tell them face to face that you have developed feeling for them and want to begin a relationship. If this is someone you know but who has no idea how you feel, and you are a bit shy about making the first move, try asking them out without overwhelming them by saying that you love him. The problem with a letter or a card is that you can not see their reaction to the news, so I would try to steer clear of doing that. When you tell a person face to face, at least you can read their facial expression and determine the time and place to break it to them. Good luck! :)
2007-03-12 02:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by Queen Bee 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Face your fear.
Don't write a letter so nobody can use it as a prop against you later. Don't send anything because mail can get lost or stolen and then you stupidly wait for an answer that will never come.
Face to face is better. Be careful to choose the right moment, that is key. Don't be afraid to look like an idiot, expect it even so if you do, you won't be surprised, and you don't, it will be a relief. Love is making a fool of oneself anyway so it comes with the territory.
2007-03-12 02:57:24 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny D 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I believe being honest with your feelings & being honest with others is inportant & I believe you should share your feelings face to face if able to and not far distance ect,
the only way i would suggest sharing your feelings in writing as if you were far distance from each other, and if so I would express your feelings inside a card of like a thinking of you card
also when you go to greet your freind whom you want to tell them you love them, you could still get a card thinking of you card and then tell him face to face because I love you and cant stop thinking of you,
Your Not ever an idiot for sharing your feelings such like love.
I would do both get a card (thinking of you card) and write cant stop thinking about you beside it
because I love you
also I would tell him face to face, this is how I feel about you , I can't stop thinking about you because I believe I love you
perhaps meet at a comfortable place. like a place for coffee or tea
or a park bench. so you can take a walk together in the park and express your feelings for the one you love,
also if perhaps he doesnt have same feelings, still have respect and understanding and know that atleast you let him know of how you feel, so their isnt any misunderstandings in the future
& perhaps he also may have same feelings for you may be surprised
take care
good luck
2007-03-12 02:55:46 · answer #4 · answered by Lynnrose2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face to face is the best way to do anything. Maybe a home-made card with a poem or something, then continue on with an actual conversation. Face to face means a lot more than anything.
2007-03-12 02:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by Angel*Eyesz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Life's too short to worry about looking like an idiot. You'll feel more of an idiot if, when you are old and grey, you're sitting watching some boring TV show thinking 'What if?' Grab life by the scruff of the neck and ask - face to face - if there's any future with the object of your affections.
2007-03-12 03:08:53 · answer #6 · answered by Heralda 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's best to write a letter or e-mail, it's hard but can produce fantastic results that can change your life forever if not you know you can try and move on. Send something romantic or flirt a little, if you are already going out with him wait until you are at the 3 month stage before saying it to him, remember he can't get angry because it's always nice to hear someone loves you!
Good Luck Hope it works out x
2007-03-12 03:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by ωєℓѕн 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Face to face is best, but if you feel like you're so nervous that you won't get the words out, then put it down on paper. A nice letter, maybe with some flowers or a rose would melt just about any girl's heart! Good luck.
2007-03-12 02:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by Tess 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It is better to tell them face to face when you are telling somebody how you feel about them. You should either tell them that you love them while you are out at dinner, park, social gatherings, etc. Set the mood and then tell them. Don't be scared just say the word "I LOVE YOU." I am sure that you will get a nice wet one on the lips after saying that. I hope that it works out for you.
2007-03-12 02:54:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have had this exact same problem, I kept putting it off and putting it off and then when I was about to tell him I loved him he asked me 'where do you think this relationship is heading?' - this totally threw me and instead of telling him how I felt about him all I could think of was why was he asking me this - did he think there was a problem.
My advice is don't put it off, just tell him that you love him, he may not respond straight away but at least he'll know how you feel about him.
Don't end up like me - I won't see my bf till the end of the week now and I just want to tell him how I feel about him, but I want to do it face to face.
2007-03-12 03:07:58 · answer #10 · answered by luz2loz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋