There are men in this world who show no pain, no fear, and in doing that they hide all other emotions as well. My father is one of them. He just doesnt understand me. Everything i do or say he corrects, and they're not all wrong. Its not like im running away at 2 in the morning to meet my b/f. I dont even wunna have one, i dont have time for drama like that. Arent all fathers only concerned about they childrem dating? All i wunna do is ride. HORSES, and he completely disapproves. Its not like i cant, im REALLY good, but still, even though he knows thats where i pour my heart and soul he doesnt let me. He's too careless and he never lets me do ne thing i want to do! He doesnt even let me ride a bike out unpatrolled and im already 13. My mom sat next to me in bed last night and told me he's only afraid i'd get hurt, but i dont believe her because he doesnt love me. This doesnt even feel like my life ne more. He just doesnt understand me. I hate him..
2007-03-12 02:43:39 · 4 answers · asked by Nikki.[mmk]. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well I wouldn't say you hate your own dad, I know you may feel that way now but you will actually look at this day 20 years from now and say i'm glad I listened to my dad. Here's the thing parents are like that they don't want you to get hurt because they rememeber when you were a lil baby and that. But maybe he doesn't want you to do horse back riding because well he may have had a bad experiance with it. Maybe you should ask him about it but he may not tell you though. Hope everything works out for yah!
2007-03-12 02:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by Caitlin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your father is probably confused on how to deal with a teenage girl. Fathers are extremely protective over their little girls. It could be that he doesn't want you to get hurt. It could be he doesn't want you to grow up, wants you to be his little girl forever. Why would you feel he doesn't love you? my mom never taught me how to drive because she was too afraid and didn't want me to grow up. Just because you don't get to do the things you want doesn't mean he doesn't love you. Maybe you should invite him to a horseback riding venture. that way he sees you ride, and 13 isn't that old, your just now finding your independence, which is great, but you need to understand that your parents may not be ready for you to do that. especially if your the only child, oldest child, or the youngest.
2007-03-12 03:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by shabyc411 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like every dad I know. Talk to him about how you feel.
2007-03-12 05:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dnt think like tht.....ur dads jus overpossesive abt u.....he cares for u so much thts y hes stoppin u.......however old u gte ull b a kid 4 him......go in his shoes n think.......n plz dnt say u hate him.......ur dad must hve told sumthin to ur mom n thts y she came n spoke to u..........now c tht is concern.......try n talk to ur dad....get closer to him n c miracles happenin
2007-03-12 02:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by nehucool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋