You go out with a guy on a few dates, everything goes well, you're having fun, there huge chemistry, you talk to each other, make out a lot...but you don't go home with him when he asks you to (after a 3rd date). You are embarrased to tell him you're not ready yet but still you try to convey it..he says why are you making so many excuses all the time..Thing starts to feel "cold" all of the sudden because you're wondering where the connection with him is..where did it go..Guys, why do you stop wanting to see a girl that you supposadly like/are attracted to..if she refuses to give it to you when you insist? Why do you turn cold? And do you think it's cool/normal to invite a girl to a house full of your guy friends, that all know what's going on ..so how can that be comfortable for a woman? Girls, how would that make you feel? What do you do when a new relationship gets to this point?
2007-03-12 02:40:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean, it's not like I wanted something serious..I just wanted to see if there's potential..to me there is..he was awsome on the date when we were by ourselves (not in a club with our friends). There was something deeply intriguing about him and his own insecurity, I found that so sexy...that's why I wanted to get to know him better...
2007-03-12 02:51:30 · update #1
I agree, I live by the 3 date rules, no more than 20$ a date and if your don't put out by the third date I would move on. There are always exceptions but the most is 5 dates and if there's not hardcore sex by then I'm moving on!
2007-03-12 02:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
he's informed you which you and he are only courting. He did no longer say you have been unique. So except you like a extra serious courting, then you certainly've a decision, the two to circulate on and need you will come across a extra serious guy. Or stay with him, have the relaxing you're having now with him and spot, in the adventure that your courting gets extra serious. although, in case you have been courting for 5 months, and it hasn't become serious, this is slightly no longer likely it ever will. So why do no longer you do what he's doing, date him yet shop your different concepts open. in case you spot or meet some guy, which you like, date him to boot. that's what courting is for, to be certain if this is going to go further, when you the two get to be attentive to one yet another extra useful. especially circumstances it does, at the same time as different cases, even on your first date, you be attentive to that's a ineffective end highway, with that guy.
2016-11-24 22:10:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, three "dates" with a boy doesn't necessarily mean it's a relationship. Second, if he has turned "cold" since you've refused to give it to him, then thank your lucky stars because that's all he wanted from you. He now realizes he's not going to get it so he's starting to back off. As for him taking you to a roomful of his buddies, he was probably hoping to pass you around. I think you should remove yourself from this situation and save it for someone who's worth it.
2007-03-12 02:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by Brandy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That means, he is "not that into you", read the book of the name. If he treat you like that, he has changed his mind about you and it's time for you to give him the boot. Before he gives it to you or else he will be a coward and just be lingering you on. Beat him to it and tell him you will look to find someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
2007-03-12 02:49:38 · answer #4 · answered by chez006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally...if he can't figure that out....then the chemistry and so called connection you felt is lust and only lust. you were smart to not fall for that. i would just chalk it up to that and let it go. but then again....if a guy is cold to me i just can't help but show him the true and serious meaning of cold shoulder so he will know in the future just exactly what it means to be treated coldly. lol
2007-03-12 02:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by igot_terminal_uniqueness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, sweetie. He was thinking with his little head. Not his big head and his heart. He was looking to get you in bed only, and you wanted more. Be glad that you didn't give in to find out after that's all he was interested in.
2007-03-12 02:46:31 · answer #6 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your making a sweeping generalization based on the male populous based on one individual experience?
Interesting.
2007-03-12 02:44:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the situation was only based on sex.Find someone who is willing to wait awhile.even if you had sex with him he probably would still be giving you the cold shoulder.
2007-03-12 02:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wanted to have sex with u and u refused so he moved on. it happens to all of us.
2007-03-12 02:46:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋