OK. So on Saturday I went to this really cool party. One of my friends was turning 18. Well anyway I was drinking a little and I was getting my flirt on with this one girl. Well she goes and hooks up with my best friend. No biggie. Its happened before. Well I continue to drink I guess I have a good buzz. Well, I start talking to this guy. I would never have thought about myself as being gay or bi or anything BUT DAMN. This guy was really hot. He was drinking as well. We go outside and sit near this truck. NExt thing I know, we are like seriously making out. We decide to go somewhere more private. So we go to my car. We end up getting caught but by my best friend so its allright. She just laughs. Then we go into the woods and we "finish". The way were doing things.It really felt like it was something more then a hook up. He made the move on me. one night stands are not my style. I really like him. Should I call him first. The whole gay thing is both new for me and him. No one can know!
2007-03-12 02:39:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, the fact that you were UNDER THE INFLUENCE says a lot. You may think that there was a huge attraction but it could have been a sub-conscious rebound from the "flirt on" girl. If women have hooked up with your friends before, you may feel like you don't deserve her or like you can't find anyone, because your firends will end up with her, not you... so.... if you REALLY think you may be gay (of course, you will) call him. But think about this-- HE made the move on YOU and on your rebound... it may have happened like that. be careful... you never know.
2007-03-12 02:46:18 · answer #1 · answered by curry_lover4ever 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might not be gay...just drunk and horny. Or Bi..
Sorry to be so blunt but you need to take some time and really check yourself right now and figure your sexuality out. Doing your own little high school Brokeback Mountain might seem fun now but there are serious things you need to think about if you go along this path. From what you describe, you are making a decision to adopt this lifetsyle and it is not something you have ever thought of before...which is very different from what most of my gay friends describe as to how they came to know they were homosexual. My friends describe it as not having a choice..there simply wasn't anything there for the opposite sex.
And if you think no one will know, you are really going to be in for a shock later on. Prepare to be outed at the first opportunity.
2007-03-12 09:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by jenni_bu2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact him only if you are sure. Don't lead him to believe that youre into him then turn straight at the sight of a "hot chick" ... he has feelings too. Only if youre sure or if you want to clarify you should contact him. Take it easy and make sure that this is what you want and know what the consequences will be.
2007-03-12 09:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why cant anyone know? If i think ppl are gonna thin kbadly/differently of u then y do it? i know u shouldn't care what ppl think, but this is nasty && oh my! I would laugh if i caught u to && say "God Bless You!" But for the "gay/bi" thing i dont know what u should do.
2007-03-12 09:45:31 · answer #4 · answered by 18 weeks pregnant 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well jeese Cameron...the whole world knows now...at least all of us on here do anyways
you definitely need serious relationship help if you want to enter into a homosexual relationship!
Just say NO...ask God to forgive you and don't go that way...stick with the opposite sex...that is the best relationship advice I can give to you
2007-03-12 09:46:20 · answer #5 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude, there is something u should kno, god created women for a reason, so mankind would be able to produce babies and humanity could be preserved, guys weren't made to be ***-punked, girls were, just a little piece of info i thot u should kno
2007-03-12 09:49:47 · answer #6 · answered by The Gildclam 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WOW!! I really don't know what to say. Good luck on your adventourous journey, buddy!
2007-03-12 09:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by Princess of Egypt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH honey, just stay right there in the closet and no one will ever know.
2007-03-12 09:43:28 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No disrespect but I hate fags so you on your own with that one. Sorry!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-12 09:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋