Why is he acting like this?

Question

A former male friend of mine at work is avoiding me. We were close friends b4, but we had joked about hooking up until I got upset with him since I ended up wanting to and felt like he was disrespecting me. I ended up calling him a dog since he has a gf overseas and was talking to me about doing it. Anyway I ended up writing a letter to him apologizing to him and he told me I was too weird to be his friend since I gave him mixed signals. He emailed me telling me I needed therapy and that I should get a bf and some friends. When he emailed me this, I was hurt and had been ignoring him for a month, but I could tell he would look at me and try to make me jealous by talking to other girls. I think he realized he had hurt my feelings since I could tell he looked guilty sometimes. I went up to him and said hi and he said hi. He looked at me like he wanted to talk. We have been just saying hi for the past couple of days and people at work are being too nice

Answer 1

Well, then talk to him. Find out why he's been acting like such a moron. Expect the unexpected tho. It's kind of sad to lose a friend like that just because you guys are now too guilty to talk to each other. Apologize to him again, and in person, and if he doesn't apologize to you, then he's not worth fighting for.

Answer 2

Apparently this guy is not someone you would want to hook up with being that he has a girlfriend and spoke about hooking up with you that lets you know that he is a cheater. Then he has no problem with hurting your feelings by sending you a nasty insensitive email then trying to make you jealous by talking to other girls at work. I once knew someone just like this he actually would like it if you would hook up with him after work hours keep it "our little secret" while he has these "friends" at work and trust me he will be hooking up with them too on the side all the while keeping his over seas gf. Thank God that this thing did not go any further and don't give him the satisfaction of thinking he got the best of you by making you upset or hurting your feelings keep saying hello to him and don' t let anyone at work know that he upset you, and in no time you will have gotten over this whole situation and you will feel great about the fact that the two of you did not hook up.

Answer 3

He is responding to when you called him a dog, You were right though. When girls call guys names they really take it to heart.

you may need to sit down with him and really have a talk so you guys can get your feelings out! Good Luck! Let us know how it turns out! do not give up!