My boyfriend had gone out of station for a few days.I saw his friend who was irresistable.He wanted me at his house.I went.He started fingering me but i felt bad and told him i have to think about it.What should I do?
2007-03-12 02:07:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont do it, its wrong
2007-03-12 02:10:08 · answer #1 · answered by pancho 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You aren't cheating exactly but that was wrong you should have never went over his friend house and let things go that far and your boyfriend probably will find out that you did this with his friend. And you should probably tell him because what's done in the dark, will come to the light and it will be a lot easier for him to hear it from you instead of some one else.
2007-03-12 09:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by Lady T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U must keep your control. Some men tend to be irresistable but as a lady we must know our limits. Just put yourself in your bf's position and you'll will understand. Dont let the two guys quarrel over u. Even if you escape from this guy now, you may tend to give in to him the next time, so b careful. Always make men look to up to us and not let them think that we're cheap. Your bf's fren is not a good guy bcos if he is he wouldn't want to betray his friend. Remain faithful to your bf, gal. It will give u a lot of peace and assurance. Remember not to get involve wif this guy as he'll definetly give you problem. Trust me.
2007-03-12 09:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by saddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep, that is definitely cheating, and whats more? u cheated on him with his best friend, which will probably cause a big rift between them if he finds out. So either beg for mercy, or dump him and go with someone else, unless ur a very good liar and can manage to keep the truth from him
2007-03-12 09:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by The Gildclam 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes that's cheating! If you love your boyfriend you have nothing to think about! What you did was wrong and you should never have gone there in the first place!
2007-03-12 09:12:23 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa T (Stop BSL) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CHEATING: when boundaries are crossed, infedelity occurs, and/or sexual action happens.
CONCLUSION: yes you cheated.
become single.
becuz if you find him irresistable, then you can't resist long enuff to stay loyal. Rather break up now, then be in love and and break up then. But know that its gonna hurt him , becuz he will feel, that he wasn't good enuff that's why you had to cheat, so tell him the truth.
2007-03-12 09:11:52 · answer #6 · answered by dall4wwf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your b/f would be upset with your actions then it is cheating. Cheating is what the couple agrees upon. Swingers have sex with others and agree its not cheating to them. Its all about how the other person perceives your actions.
2007-03-12 09:17:07 · answer #7 · answered by souless one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uuuhhh, and physical contact w/ another man who is not the one you claim to love is cheating... when ur in a relationship that is supposed to be monogamous, there is no sexual things on the side... think of it this way - ur man is away and finds a nice looking girl and figures that ur not there to please him so might as well get it somewhere else - and he fingers another girl.... how would u feel? my bet is, not very special or loved!
2007-03-12 09:13:48 · answer #8 · answered by shiningstar1313 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break up with your boyfriend if you want to be with his friend. What you did was wrong and if your boyfriend finds out he is going to be really hurt by both of your actions. How would you feel if he did something like this to you with one of your friends?
2007-03-12 09:11:26 · answer #9 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes that is cheating and u are wrong for doing it with his friend! and dont think ur boyfriend aint gonna find out cause the friend is gonna tell him when he gets home!
2007-03-12 09:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by Ma Baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are cheating! Do your boyfriend a favor and break up with him.
2007-03-12 09:12:24 · answer #11 · answered by rustybones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋