I checked my bf's text messages and there is a text from this girl who says hi it's...I got your # from my mom, apparently our parents are conspiring to get us togther... He didn't repond to her until 20 days later (this text wasn't in the phone) then she texted him again last week stating that she has midterms this week and that they should hang out if he isn't busy during her spring break which starts today...He's a teacher and also has spring break starting today...He went into my car yesterday where I accidentally left her name and # I had written down, in an obvious spot in the passenger seat, he returned looking like he'd just seen a ghost...can I prevent him from texting or calling her back? What should I do? I can't believe his parents did this!
2007-03-12 01:30:13 · 6 answers · asked by concerned24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is thinking about cheating, then you need to run away before you get more hurt.
He is immature, and that was wrong of his parents to do that ! You need to tell your boyfriend that he needs to choose. YOU OR HER. Tell him you will not take this from him, that you expect more. Tell him that if he text her, call her or anything, that you will leave.
BE outspoken and tell him like it is.
2007-03-12 01:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that this is happening to you. All you can do really is be upfront with him, tell him that you seen the msg's from her when you were looking for something and that you need to know wether he is considering the proposition that she gave him. My guess is that he took 20 days before he replied so i don't think he's too eager to really meet up with her otherwise he wouldv'e msg'd her back straight away. I can't believe that his parents would undermine your relationship like that and try and set him up when they already know you's are together. have you spoken to his mum and asked her why she gave her his number? If you haven't i would ask her and see if she is really trying to set them up, this girl may just be lying. If his phone is on a plan get the bill and look through it for her number and that way you can see if and when he has replied to her. I hope he doesn't fall victim to this girl and good luck with your relationship.
2007-03-12 01:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're not Married? Both of you agree to take a break form eachother. Ans give you both time to think about what's going on. You then, start figuring out what he means to you. He's got to offer some respect? If that ain't his angle? You're outta there! Go find Love from someone that does respect you!
2007-03-12 01:44:01 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're married I would definitely confront him.
If you're not married I would decide if the relationship was worth trying to salvage based on all the secrets and his parents feelings about this.
2007-03-12 01:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to "him" about it. be blunt...ask him if he is dating or thinking of dating other people. He is the only one who knows.
I hope he is not a liar and is straight forward and honest with you.
Then, depending upon his answer, you need to decide if you want that kind of relationship or not. If you want a monogamous relationship and he wants to date around, you might just have to say goodbye.
be cool...
2007-03-12 01:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him
2007-03-12 02:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋