Would you like to date with them?
2007-03-12 01:24:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not sure why you are even asking. What does it matter? Our limbs does not make us who we are. We are also in a country where our limitations do not interfere with our success in life.
Remember, bodies are vessels only. Good luck!
2007-03-12 01:33:33 · answer #1 · answered by U812B4 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not they are amputees...decisions on dating someone shouldn't even come into play whether they have some, none, or all limbs unless you are the type of person who is worried about surface values (which makes you either shallow or just not open to new experiences). It all depends on how you relate with them. One of the coolest ladies men that I know is a guy who was in an accident and lost both his arms from the elbows down. It hasn't stopped him from having a harem of admirers around him. He is a very charming and cool guy so obviously, the arms (or lack of) don't hold him back when it comes to dating. I think it also might be that he is pretty well adjusted to not having the limbs so it puts others at ease.
I am assuming that you have generalized that all amputees act the same way or have the same circumstances so I want to interject that this is not so. Certainly it might be something extra to talk about in first conversations but there is always gonig to be much more about the person who just happens to be missing a limb or something.
That is my .02
Obviously, this is personal opinion so you really just have to figure out your own comfort level with things like this. Either way, it is best ot be completely honest with yourself and figure out how you feel about this issue.
2007-03-12 08:42:27 · answer #2 · answered by jenni_bu2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amputee people still people, They just lose one part of thier body. And they still have emotions to love and hurt. I won't mind if i like an amputee person, as long that i care for him or love him. Personality defect shouldn't be a barrier in loving them. They can still be productive in so many ways. And i bet they can still give you many children..lol.
2007-03-12 08:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by pink_blossom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing Wrong with them. But I would probably not date one, just being honest, I am a very extreme person and any handicaps a person has could mean a life or death situation.
2007-03-12 08:37:21 · answer #4 · answered by Jason S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok with me coz I know those people are really in need of a freind,but not date as if starting a relationship just talk like others.
2007-03-12 08:29:47 · answer #5 · answered by AmandaNikolah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What?They are no different than you and me,they just had the misfortune to lose a limb for what ever reason.
2007-03-12 08:31:36 · answer #6 · answered by Butch46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would not be a factor if usually quality's of a nice datable person were in place.
2007-03-12 08:29:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not say i would like too, but if i was fond of some one with a missing limb so be it.
2007-03-12 08:30:30 · answer #8 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One needs a lot of patience to be with a person like that!
2007-03-12 08:28:25 · answer #9 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not as a group....LOL
If the guy was someone I was interested in I don't think it would bother me....but it would depend on the guy.
2007-03-12 08:27:41 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋