in christian belief, is anal and oral sex sin?

Question

so someone asked, is it sin for man and wife to have anal sex, or any sex other than missionary, and i dont know for sure, what do you think? if so why and where is it in the bible? thanks alot

Answer 1

Best bet is: Do it anyway then pray for forgiveness of any sin you may have inadvertently committed.

Answer 2

I don't think it is a sin for a man and wife to have anal or oral sex or any other sort of sex. If you believe God is perfect then why would he even create this moral delima? So given that God created man/women nothing we do sexualy is forbidden as long as both are concenting, with the purpose of bonding, it is a pleasurable act and dedicated to the continuation of Gods people. Sex for pleasure if anything in gods eyes is an inducement to pro-create, bond and protect the sanctity of the family unit. Although oral and anal sex does not produce children, it is or may be pleasurable for both partners. This is an enducement for both to mutualy gratify and support each other and does bond these two together emotionaly. Two well adjusted, satisfied partners will less likely go outside the relationship to find gratification elseware. This is emotionaly and physicaly safe. Emotionaly because stable relationships produce more children, and physicaly safe because of the lack of sexualy transmitted deseases, as well as other dangers not brought into the family. Also, the two stay in close proximity and with the addition of children closer to the child. You have a close nit mutuality , safe supported family. In times of famine and food shortages, to have more children then one can feed ensures the weakness of both children. So, given sex bonds male and female, but the creation of children in times of famine is not a good idea, alternate, non procreating sex for bonding and keeping the two together is necessary. When the famine is complete and times are good for children, well guess what two are still bonded together. Gods plan I would think is procreation, safety, family and the continuation of his people. Gods people being those that accepted him and want to do his works. Why would God put taboos on pleasure between men and women. Think about it for a moment. If there were another god competeing for your loyalty (not that there is) and he offered pleasure for sex (procreation, family protection) and your god did not, whose god would have more followers?

Answer 3

A very good book to read is titled "Sheet Music" by Kevin Leman. There it will answer all such questions. Just remember to keep it all within the context of marriage.
I will not go in to details here, but the Bible says that the marriage bed is undefiled. We are to have great freedom with our spouse, but be sure you are both in agreement and on the same page. Read "Sheet Music" rather than ask here on YA! where you will get profane and useless answers (not all, but most). That would be my advice.

Answer 4

I believe that scripture is silent on these specific issues. It clearly forbids sodomy in the context of homosexuality. However, by inference we can deduct the following:

Oral sex in marriage is acceptable as long as both partners enjoy it and if it does NOT violate either spouse's conscience. -
1 COR 8:9 But take care that this liberty of yours does not somehow become a stumbling block to the weak. (It talks about the weaker and stronger Christian).

There is no physical damage or harm from it in a faithful one on one marriage relationship. However, it should not be become the focal point of all sexual acts. Many times, men simply demand oral sex. That is the wrong motive, as ALL sex is supposed to giving, loving and GOD honoring. GOD specificially designed man and woman with unique genitials for specific and primary use.

Anal sex is clearly a risk to one's health especially the woman's and in contrary to the love a husband ought to have for his wife as outlined in Eph 5:28-29
28So husbands ought also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself;
29for no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ also does the church,

Anal sex is wrong under any circumstance as it creates health risks and also used GOD's temple in a way contrary to the way GOD designed it.

Answer 5

No,
It's is for man n women to enjoy sex.

Answer 6

I'm an atheist but wasn't all sex outside marriage sin? The hole you use don't matter I think. What you do inside marriage is your thing, I don't recall any scripture on that.

Answer 7

I've never heard or read anything that suggested they were sinful, but ultra-religious people have all kinds of sexual issues and hang-ups. I mean, many of them won't even ring their own doorbell, for cryin' out loud.

Answer 8

in the mormon church, anything that is unnatural is considered a sin. but using a condemn can be defined as unnatural.
it depends on who you ask. and it also depends on if the wife objects, but the husbands insists. there might grounds for rape when committing sodomy. Forced to commit sex is not saintly.

Answer 9

The bible tells us any sex which is not for the express purpose of having children between two married people is filthy and disgusting and anyone performing such an act will burn in hell unless they pray to Jesus and ask for his forgiveness.

Answer 10

Uh...

I think that we should test that theory. Wink wink nudge nudge.