We've been together six years. He says he loves me, finds me sexy and I still turn him on. But we seem to go around in circles when it comes to sex.
2007-03-12 01:15:21 · 14 answers · asked by bustymomlaura 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him, find out what turns him on, maybe dressing up or trying toys. You may need to build up his confidence in the bedroom. Or tell him it's difficult to stay faithful if he can't satisfy you for much longer. Good luck. x.
2007-03-12 22:33:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How to get a man to initiate sex:
Stop asking him for sex. When he asks for sex, say "Yes".
If he isn't interested, he will not initiate. If you reject him for stupid reasons like your favorite show is on or you are tired, he will not be inclined to ask again, especially if he wasn't that interested to begin with.
Whoever has the stronger sex drive at this point in their lives is going to be the one initiating sex. That's just the way it is. I hope someday my wife's sex drive challenges my ability to keep up.
2007-03-12 10:41:52 · answer #2 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're so lucky to have this guy, i think his not gay, he only respect you or maybe his quite traditional.Don't make any move, coz sometimes aggressiveness of the girl really turns off a guy. Enjoy the kind of love that he gave you and wait for the right time for that sort of thing.
2007-03-12 02:47:41 · answer #3 · answered by ????????? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out his latest fantasy and turn yourself into it.
If he plays video games, dress up the way his favorite female character dresses.
2007-03-12 04:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by Cnl Delta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you chose,call on your inner courage and put yourself in a vunerable position,and ask him. i would like it if sex between us was initated by yourself more often, would there be anything you need or want from me to influence you to feel more comfortable in meeting this need in me?i would also suggest you do your best to remain silent for the following 5 miniutes and practice listning.
2007-03-12 01:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by thirsty42 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must be tensed bout ur reaction
but if u want sex and don want to initiate it den atleast give sum hints
gets closer to him
bring ur lips close to his lips
wear mini skirts and show off ur breast
dis wud excite him and if all dis does not work den talk directly to him
best of luk sweety!!!
2007-03-12 01:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by jalaj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak with him and find out if anything is bother him. Let him know how you feel and what you want.
2007-03-12 01:23:26 · answer #7 · answered by SGElite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well put a rope barrier up so he cant run in circles, just get naked and show him what you want.. be adventureous
2007-03-12 01:20:11 · answer #8 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three little words.
"I want sex."
He'll either get it or you need a new guy.
2007-03-12 01:25:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be worried if u mind it, if he doenst initiate it u do it...
2007-03-12 01:25:54 · answer #10 · answered by Lucky Khan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋