just want to party all the time. They made good choices in life and have their lives together. While I'm picking up the pieces in mine, they want to have fun.
What do I do, cut my losses or still keep them around? I want to be serious now and not mess up again.
2007-03-12 01:11:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way you sound, partying is what brought you to the place where you are right now. If you're trying to get your life back together this my mean that you need to walk away from these friends either for a short time, or longer because in order for you to concentrate on you, you can not focus on what your friends may think you should do. This choice can't be an easy one and I know this because my son has had to do this. He's been trying to pick up the pieces of his life for so long and when he gives up and hangs with his old friends, he's back to square one. Please do what's right for you. Go to the people who want to help you and cheer you on. True friends will either understand and the ones that don't aren't wanting the best for you. God Bless you as you get it all together:)
2007-03-12 01:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by gone2soon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the thing: You may have just outgrown your friends and need to consider the fact that you would do better to surround yourself with people that are more conducive to your new lifestyle.
You don't have to totally ditch your old friends but you might want to think about adding new ones that are more suited to where you want to be in life. And put your old partying friends on the backburner until you can find a place where they fit into your new life instead of trying to figure out how the new and improved you can maintain friends with people whose lifestyle has been toxic for you.
Remember, this is about you and not them. If your old friends cannot support your efforts to have a better and healthier life, then they aren't really friends are they?
2007-03-12 08:19:45 · answer #2 · answered by jenni_bu2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're wanting to become an Adult? They're too busy still being Kids. Leave `em in the dust. Your Happiness is somewhere else. Congrats on wanting to become an Adult. Just don't act like one? Until you are actually one. In Body, Mind & Spirit. Cause there are too many Party-Hearty Folks out there. And you deserve to be respected. Good Luck!
2007-03-12 08:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your friends close. It's time for you to make good choices though, if that means less parting then so be it. If they are truly your friends they will understand what you are going through and will support you.
2007-03-12 08:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by Larry J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then keep them as friends but put some distance between you for now...good luck
2007-03-12 08:15:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends in need are friends indeed don't bother about them as they are not true friends......
2007-03-12 08:24:16 · answer #6 · answered by rahulsins1982 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
figure out wat is wrong and make a point to never have it happen again
2007-03-12 08:15:35 · answer #7 · answered by That guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋