I'm in a real jam and it's been like this for a while.
This is the first thread I made.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
In a nutshell, my mother is totally out of the picture, and my father is a mean (and sometimes violent) drunk who would never believe me even if I told him what was happening.
I have to admit that this is really screwing me up. Last night she came into my room and crawled into bed with me without waking me up. WHen I woke up there she was f'cking wrapped around me! It's killing me!
What can I do, and more importantly, how?
2007-03-12 01:03:11 · 19 answers · asked by nastysickndirty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Damn, some of you f'ckers are disgusting!
Why would I lie? I don't get it.
Trust me when I say I know.
2007-03-12 01:43:31 · update #1
YOUR NAME SAYS IT ALL!!!
2007-03-12 01:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by Billie R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is no sexual contact, and you both have some sort of clothing on and all she is doing is coming in the bed with you, there is nothing wrong except you are not liking it. She is obviously frightened of something...you must understand this...
If possible, get a cot or a mattress or air mattress and move it into your room so she can come and sleep in your room if she gets scared... it sounds as if you are all she has for comfort and moral support rt now...It's obvious that she is afraid of her father and he may have tried to do something sexual with her when he is drunk..ask her if she is afraid of dad and if she is you will know in a second after asking, because she may cry, not say anything or just break down and sob and tell you or all of the above.. this is your flesh and blood so hold her and tell her it's ok to talk to you and tell you whats going on, then seek some sort of counseling from a trusted adult from a school counselor to a close relative to pastor of a church and anyone in between... keep her close till she confides in you whats going on...
2007-03-12 08:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you know that she is inlove with you? I don't see bad thing on what she did, she only went up and sleep and hug you. Maybe she is looking a father figure on you because she is lacking of fatherly attention. If she is doing more than that, that will really alarming. Then you need to be careful in dealing with this because she is your sister and you should protect her also from embarassment. if this case persist, first try to talk to her and explain why you can't be lovers. You can say you care for her because she is your little sister and you love her so much. And then try to consult a psychiatrist for your sister.Hope you will get through.Goodluck.
2007-03-12 08:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by pink_blossom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have slept in the same bed and hugged my brother lots.Fully clothed and not because i was in love with him but because my adoptive father was drunk and being a real a**.if she is touching you inappropriate then you have a problem and need to tell a counsler or somone you trust and put a lock on your door.Good Luck and yes some ppl on this can be reall jerks so dont take it personal its just who they are jerks.
2007-03-12 09:22:29 · answer #4 · answered by furby_lost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depens is she younger than u it could just be thats shes scared of something and ur the only one she feels safe with like u said ur mothers gone and ur dad is a drunk so theres no1 else she can go 2 apart from u
2007-03-12 08:08:02 · answer #5 · answered by sammlwrd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a pervert for a sister. If you have a lock on your bedroom door, use it. Let her know it is wrong. You should let someone know what is going on, if not your Dad, then some other family member ASAP
2007-03-12 08:56:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Incest is Unacceptable can you move out..once it happens your done for life the Guilt lives and eats you up big time you can not let this happen take action now before it 2 late you havent said if how old you are and her age too.she needs some psycho help please for your own sake act now
2007-03-12 09:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by judie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are in a messed up situation so just let it pass by and try not to react with ur sister again. she must have been on drug or drunked.
2007-03-12 08:12:35 · answer #8 · answered by Servant of Allah, Our Sovereign. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur in serious trbl. i guess u shd take her 2 da cycologist as she seems 2 b sufferin frm sum kinda prbl.
2007-03-12 08:07:19 · answer #9 · answered by @LpHi!i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she might be scared maybe even from your father
sum1 might have told her something that made her do it
or maybe she accually loves you cuz she might have no guy in her life but i cant tell for sure cuz sisters dont usually do stuff to their bros
2007-03-12 08:25:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG.. well if any action happens video tape it and send it to me.. ill make it worth your while.
2007-03-12 08:05:45 · answer #11 · answered by skinnywayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋