we broke up about 3 months ago and i can't stop thinking of him what should i do i've tryed moving on but it don't work i still think about him thanks!
2007-03-12 00:30:25 · 10 answers · asked by amy_baby123 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to start occupying your time with things that make you feel good about yourself. Get around your friends and do things with them as much as you can. Take some classes and develop some new interests. Sometimes it take a long time to get over an ex, but you can do it.
It took me ages to get over my first love. He was my first serious relationship that lasted almost all through college. When we broke up, I was devastated and thought I would just collapse from the pain. It wasn't until I began to rediscover my life and enjoy myself and enjoy being myself that I began to mend. I had a lot of dreams wrapped up in that relationship, and I eventually had to admit to myself that they were GONE and I had to move forward and live in the present not the past.
I am now engaged to the man of my dreams. He is totally the love of my life, and I am so happy with him. I am glad for the relationships in the past, because they taught me a lot, and make me a better woman to the man I love. I am also glad I never got back with that first love. He was a good guy, but we were not right for each other. I know that more than ever now that I am with the person who is right for me.
It will get better.
2007-03-12 00:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to think about him, it's only natural. But in time you will be ok. I'm sure you guys broke up for a reason so don't go back to him just because he is on your mind. It would have to be more than that. Me and my fiance broke up in September after a 9 year relationship and I still think about him. (not as much as when we frist broke up) It was hard at first, but I'm ok and I have moved on. It just toook me some time. Make sure you stay active. Surround yourself with friends and family so this way you're not sitting at home all sad faced and what not. You'll be ok.
2007-03-12 00:56:49 · answer #2 · answered by nikkid6910705 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has moved on you must realize this fact and move on yourself.Sometimes a little space in a relationship is a good thing makes you both realize what you had together. On the other hand if you force something that's not really there you could lose a friend, hoping you guys split on good terms.
2007-03-12 00:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by BIG DAWG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?sometimes u think ur in love and later on u will discover u werent....so take it easy on urself. why did u break up? from whose side? if it was you, you have to convince urself of ur decision before implementing it, if it was him, why do u still love him if he doesnt want to be with u anymore, try to do some activities that will help you stop thinking about him, figure out sthg new to make u busy for a while.... :)
2007-03-12 00:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by Corleone... 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they say that looking for the rebound guy cuts your healing period in half! you can try going out with other guys, but make sure that you know the risks you're gonna have to take. don't fall too fast! just go out on friendly dates and enjoy other guys' company.
you can also opt to go out with your girlfriends to take your mind off your ex. better yet, find a hobby which will occupy your mind and keep your ex out of it! good luck!
2007-03-12 00:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about rather than 'moving on' you focus on who you are & what you want in life ... imagine the fun in rediscovering the wonderful exciting you .... start by writing a list of your dreams & your passions & work towards full-filling atleast one thing on the list .... enjoy :-)
2007-03-12 00:41:17 · answer #6 · answered by Millii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get real drunk and go to a bar and pick up any guy. That's what my ex does. Seems to work for her.
2007-03-12 00:53:47 · answer #7 · answered by JC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u still like him then ask him out but if it don't work then find some1 else if he don't wanna know u then it's for the best if you leave it. if he likes u still then u should be 2gether. if he's what u want go for it lol
2007-03-12 00:43:12 · answer #8 · answered by ashleigh e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should go back to him, if u keep up like this for a long time u will be mentally damaged and u would be able to concentrate on ur life.
2007-03-12 00:37:31 · answer #9 · answered by Servant of Allah, Our Sovereign. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your self if he still love you or not, if yes try try try moving on and if not jest go head in your life.....
good luck... :)
2007-03-12 00:52:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋