I was with him for 5 years; i broke up with him because i felt he was authorative and plus we argued constantly. I suffer from depression which intensified when we got together. He treated it as something that 'in my mind'. Anyway to make a long story short, my daughter wanted to see his son, so we went over there and immediate i got angry. I expressed my displeasure with him, told him i hated him. He had said he loved me but he has a current gf whom he adores. He wanted his to be together, all 3 of us because she couldn't have kids and he wanted kids with me.
I hated him so much that he wanted me to be with him and her that I wished I were dead. I went home crying because I hated him so much; we argued and when i tried to apologize, he cut me off; turned his back on me.
Am I being stupid?
2007-03-12 00:14:23 · 8 answers · asked by Dovegrl357 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you apologize to the freaky threesome wanting pervert? Stay away from him. Forever.
2007-03-12 00:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by jacquie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what i am getting you do not hate him- you still have feelings for him but you now know he has a new g.f. You were definitely not being stupid. You were with him for 5 years. When you see him try to be nice-kill him with kindness. You do not need to have any kids with him tho, not under those conditions. Tell him to adopt or find another surrogate mother. Good luck It will take time but do not give up. better days will come if you will let them.
2007-03-12 00:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by nj2pa2nc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is, you're in love with him. There is a thin line between love and hate and you love this man. You're jealous of his current gf and so you are angry at her and him both. But you love him. Think about it, deep down inside you do.
2007-03-12 00:19:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hostility is normal in situations like that.
Maybe its your nature also so maybe you can't stop being hostile.
Maybe he understands that and is very sorry too.
We feel what we feel though, we can't help that.
Maybe he just wanted you soooooooooooo bad, and couldn't see any way to get you. Having a wife who is sort of nice and pretty mostly already. And who does love and care about him.
2007-03-12 00:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was mad at my ex hubby for awhile and then one day a light went on..by me being upset by him, he was STILL controlling how i felt...I wasnt going to allow that to happen..have to realize no one should be able to control how u feel and if he's still annoying u, u must be thinking about him too much...dont let him make u miserable anymore
2007-03-12 01:13:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What in the world is wrong with this guy? Does he think that women are there to please only him?
If he wants to have kids, tell him to find another fool. Don't be foolish. He doesn't love you, he doesn't love her, he loves only himself.
Avoid him like the plague!!
2007-03-12 00:26:40 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You left him, so why should you hate him? Your the one who choose to end things and not work them out, and when you wanted to say you were sorry, it was TO late.
You cant hate him!
2007-03-12 00:19:13 · answer #7 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,he just wanted to have a 3 some.you know he does you in front of her and he does her in front of you and you two do each other in front of him.
2007-03-12 00:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by B rabit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋