he is studying overseas now n will be bac in july. He told me to wait for him if i can. but i feel there is no guarantee he will get bac wif me in july. what shd i do?
2007-03-12 00:06:51 · 10 answers · asked by sadgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'll explain. We were together n problems arised so broke up. He thinkin we wont stand a chance, got tog wif this other gal. Now, they broke up becoz of me. I wish to move on but havin e possibility of gettin bac in july makes it difficult to move on. Yes, i love him still. On the other hand, i am keep allowin him to hurt me wif this love that i haf 4 him by him rejecting me. it has been 4 mths already. i wish i can take away my emotions n i wouldnt be so sad.
2007-03-12 00:19:15 · update #1
u still love him?
2007-03-12 00:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by Alicia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 03:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't completely understand the question but I'll try to answer the best I can. If I read correctly, your ex-bf broke up with his original gf to be with you, and now he broke up with you(?) because he has to study over seas?
If that's the case, you should ask yourself whether or not there is any real reason to keep in touch with him, other than the fact that he is now oversea and you can't see each other for a while. Don't just declare a total loss simply because he is going away for over half a year. The best of love is time-proved. If you think that you can't wait for him for that "long" then we'll see where that goes.
If that's not the case... then I'm afraid you just have to repharse your question better... :\
2007-03-12 00:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by Col 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How selfish is this guy. He doesn't want you to date anyone else while he is gone but he won't commit to you. tell him no that while he is away he needs to come to a decision about the 2 of you but you will date other people while he is making his decision
2007-03-12 00:12:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on try to mingle & meet others. If he comes back before you can find another love then he is lucky if he doesn't & you already find yourself somebody to love, then who cares. If he doesn't come & you are still alone, don't mind him. He just doesn't desreve your attention. Good luck girl.
2007-03-12 00:11:11 · answer #5 · answered by Leonie A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on....there's more to life than waiting around for someone to make up their mind...
if he's having a hard time deciding to love you, then he's not the one for you
2007-03-12 00:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by an_articulate_soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go on with your life as usual and when that day comes all you can do is hope for the best and see what happeneds
2007-03-12 00:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by kim c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt wait for anyone. if hes overseas how do you know he wont meet someone while hes away? if its meant to be then you will hook up when he gets back
2007-03-12 00:20:47 · answer #8 · answered by help 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like him, expore that possibility
maybe if he doesn't meet somebody who is a better maych for maybe then you could get him then
worth a try if you want him, if you don't just let him go then
or if you find somebody better then just let him go
2007-03-12 00:11:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but I don't understand what's going on... I'm sure you can find a better guy who will treat you the way you deserve
2007-03-12 00:10:03 · answer #10 · answered by Jerrica Starlight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋