I know I'm a stupid selfish bastard. But I really regret doing it and I know my girl is the one for me. How can I make her trust me again? I'm desperate.
2007-03-11 23:48:28 · 6 answers · asked by jrrm1975 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First and most important - you can't have ANY contact with that girl you cheated her with - no calls, no SMSes, no chatting, when you see the other girl on the street, don't say "hi" or whatever to her. Don't go to parties where the other girl might be.
I don't know if your gf and that girl know each other, but if they do, be very careful, LOL.
Your gf might be very mistrusting for a while and that's her good right, comments like "Get over it finally." won't help you regaining her trust - you need to earn it back and SHE makes the rules.
If she wants to talk about, talk with her and be 100% honest. If she doesn't want to talk about it at all and just forget - don't force her into anything.
2007-03-12 00:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by Chevrolet*Blazer*Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on. Theres always going to be that proverbial monkey on her back about what you did. And when you two have a big argument one day (like all couples have from time to time) that may be brought up and what can you do? Trust is earned and not given. If she was the one for you, you shouldn't have done what you did. But you have to ask yourself, if she really was the one for you, would you have cheated on her in the first place?
2007-03-11 23:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by Tyrone T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you naughty guy, if I were your gf I would never forgive you but since I'm not I reckon you are going to have to do a lot of begging and pleading and you really need to regain her trust in you.
Try telling her what you said in your question, take things slowly with her again build your relationship back up from the start.
2007-03-11 23:58:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey bro...lemme put it to you this way...i aint tryin to give you lip service and tell you only what you want to hear...you already know how bad you screwed up by the way you feel...hopefully your girlfriend isn't the type who will continue to throw your mistake in your face too often...here's the bottom line om your position...you will never have that complete trust in her eyes ever again...you may come close, but it will never be a totally mended wound...the whole thing will may even itself out when you discover that she was the one who was cheating on you the whole time anyway...and even if she wasn't, you can expect her to now...that is the shameless truth from me to you
2007-03-12 01:20:49 · answer #4 · answered by just someone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not easy and painful as it may be you might have no choice other than to move on. As hard as it is, if you
get another partner whom you love consider the
consequences before cheating. I have been there
so I am not coming down hard on you.
2007-03-12 00:03:36 · answer #5 · answered by ligoneskiing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.BY YOUR ACTIONS...BY BEING VERY SORRY AND BY TREATING HER LIKE SHE OUGHT TO BE TREATED ...YOU MUST EARN HER TRUST IN U BACK...AND THAT MY OR MAY NOT COME...JUST REALLY TALK TO HER TELL HER YOU REALIZE YOU MADE A MISTAKE AND U DEEPLY REGRET IT AND TO PLEASE FORGIVE YOU ...JUST BE STRIGHT UP WITH HER TAKE CARE
2007-03-12 00:01:54 · answer #6 · answered by blugeanie923 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋