what should i do?

Question

my boyfriends mate allways makes me feel uncomfortable with comments he makes.
i know he likes me but theres no need for him to keep saying it
his comments make me sick what should i do
my bf as known him most of his life

no my bf doesn't know he does it when hes not around

Answer 1

I think you should tell him to stop other wise you will tell your boyfriend..if he continues then tell your boyfriend and he should have a talk with him

Answer 2

I had this same problem once with my best friend and my girlfriend. (I was in your boyfriend's shoes, as it were.)

I no longer talk to my friend. I explained to him that I didn't like it, that she didn't like it, and that it was generally disrespectful of my relationship with her and my friendship with him.

He continued, and I haven't spoken to him since. It has been three years.

Bottom line: If your boyfriend will not man-up and talk to his friend, leave. If he talks to his friend and it continues, then you need to have a long talk with your boyfriend about what is more important to him. Above all, do not make it an ultimatum. He must either come to the conclusion that his friend is a dirtbag, or that his friend will quit it, and an ultimatum will make him think that you are just jealous of their friendship.

You can try not hanging out when they're together, but you'll find that it gets harder the more you try. Trust me. Essentially, if your boyfriend does not respect you enough to calm his boy down, then what does that say about the future for the two of you?

Hope this helps, and good luck!

Answer 3

Does your boyfriend know he makes these comments? If he does then he needs to tell his mate to back off and stop them. If he doesn't know you need to tell him, they may have known each other a long time but that does not give his mate the right to speak to you the way he does.

If you don't want to tell your boyfriend then you are going to have to say something to his friend yourself and I would threaten to tell you bf if he doesn't stop.

Answer 4

Tell your bf first. Tell him as youv'e posted and see what he says. If the guy is out of line leave it for your bf to deal with as you DON'T want to become the wedge between two friends..... if it's really out of line your bf should understand and put a stop to it. If he doesn't let him know how seriously it is affecting you.

Answer 5

First you need to stand up for yourself. If he is truly making you uncomfortable (is doing it deliberately), tell him to stop. Also have a chat with your BF about it. If he persists, don't associate with him, and tell your BF that if he wants to see his mate, then to do so on his own time unless he stops harassing you. Good luck

Answer 6

You should confront him in front of your bf. The best time is to wait until he makes the comment. Tell him you'd appreciate it if he were silent. Ask him to stop.

Answer 7

a friend should sacrifice his sadness to make his lover happy.
(To take a rose u will hae to resist the pain from the spike)

Or u can just tell him emotionally that u hate comments like that.

Answer 8

Tell him to stop! Tell him you don't appreciate his comments and he should stop or things will become very uncomfortable between you two. Tell your boyfriend.

Answer 9

Tie him up, then take off your panties and stuff them in his mouth. That should stop the comments for a while

Answer 10

let him know you are uncomfortable with his comments try to find out why he says these things