is my bf over protective
he keeps saying he trust me but he says it too much
he says that when i go away with my 2 friends (both male) that he will break every bone in their body if they come on to me
he hates my exs even though he never met them
when i say im walking home from town (20 min walk at around 3pm compleatly safe) he gets all worried
when i say im alone in my house he tells me to lock my doors and keep a eye out for weirdos
2007-03-11 23:34:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thats quite normal except for the lock the door part..Im the same if anyone touches my main lady
2007-03-11 23:37:28 · answer #1 · answered by IC4NDY_ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, he might be over-protective. but he really loves you. i guess since he cant be with you all the time he has to make sure that you'll be safe.
the trusting part can be another issue because it deals with the many aspects of a relationship. if you feel like you are being suffocated then let him know. make sure that both of you can come to an agreement so that he wont seem too paranoid. it might help to let him know that you are your own person and that you cant be that person if he wont allow you to. if he really does love you then he can learn to accept that.
2007-03-12 06:47:27 · answer #2 · answered by dazednconfused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with him. Find out why he is so insecure. My hubby's the same way. But, we talked and I know why. Now we are cool with it. He's still a little overprotective and jealous, but we work with it.
2007-03-12 06:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by SA16 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he loves u too much..too scared that he will loose u..lookd like u are so important to him...maybe u need to make him feel secure about your condition...make he knows that u are all his..tell him not to worry too much..tell him that so that he understand and he will trust u with all his heart..let he feel that he owns u..i mean that u are his gal not other meaning "own"...just tell him k..it will be alright..dun let him wondering too much..make him clear...all d best..
2007-03-12 06:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by DZ9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this shows that he really loves you and he wants you to be only for him it seems he is very sensitive on you this is not a problem be happy and all the best for your love
2007-03-12 06:39:31 · answer #5 · answered by Riya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds as if your bf may have been hurt in the past
talk to him and reassure him that he can trust you
2007-03-12 06:41:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop acting like a feeble little waif and tell your dude to grow a pair and back off already.....if you're truly this pathetic you deserve this freak, and if you're really lucky, maybe in the future he'll beat you too
2007-03-12 06:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
yes
2007-03-12 06:44:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a weirdo. trust me now.
2007-03-12 06:39:25 · answer #9 · answered by love....me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think its quite normal.......every guy would act like that if he's totally in love with a gurl.......
2007-03-12 12:40:15 · answer #10 · answered by pSyChO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋