I got marriaged but in the year 2006 I fall into love again becasue some non-adjustment was growing between our relation and the lady knows all things about me but now loves me very much and our compatibility is universe. I understand that this is not true but what is to be done by me.
2007-03-11 23:34:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
umm...
it happens in everyone's life...
every marriage has to go through lot of misunderstandings..
but these misundrestanding are only for sometime..every person has to do some adjustments after marriage..which is natural..so that his married life runs smoothly..
you were having some misunderstandings with your wife..which must have disturbed you..during his phase you meet that lady..she became your emotional support..thats why you feel for her..it is bound to happen..
but..only because of these small things don't mess up you life..just think buddy..your wife believes you..thiugh there is bad ime going on in your marriage..she trusts you..and feels that everything will be alright some day..
don't lose your patience like this..marriage is such a beautiful thing..just remember the special moments you had spent with your wife..just let some time pass..and give your marriage another chance and try to avoid that lady..
your wife is your love and your responsibility..
just try to understand her..your wife loves you..
2007-03-12 00:20:38 · answer #1 · answered by ruprekhawati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from that love. You stick on to your responsibility towards your wife. There is a proverb saying that greed is 30 days and lust for 60 days. So you are into this situation. Later you will repent for it and you will not get out of this for life long. Better cut that relation now only and try to make up your family and try to be happy and content with your wife. This is not only good for your family also good for you and your society.
2007-03-12 00:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by sujathaprm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, it seems which you have taken some especially no longer ordinary knocks; happy to take heed to you have made some progression interior the process therapeutic (different than for this latest incorrect turn). I wager this attraction which you're feeling for her is rather in straight forward terms some unresolved element of your previous that's doping up now for despite reason. do no longer make her your "crutch!" it could help you for a couple of minutes regardless of the undeniable fact that that's certain to coach into yet another lifeless-end street and harm you the two, enormously her. in case you rather need what's great for her (and your self), then harm it off as quickly as and for all, do no longer see her, do no longer talk along with her, get removed from her. maximum heavily, you will possibly be able to desire to attempt to appreciate and handle what that's in your self that makes you seek for the companionship of a girl while a girl is a much extra effective tournament for you bodily, mentally, and spiritually. advantages to you!
2016-10-18 04:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by seabrooks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You took vows. Are you sure that you want to break those vows. You should have never let yourself become so attached to this new lady. Love takes a lot of work, so does marriage. Sometimes it seems easier to walk away from a marriage when things get rough.. That is why we take vows (for better or worse!).
2007-03-11 23:43:03 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first learn to love your responsibility.it is the sefish side of u which believes that love is greater than responsibilities. think of your wife and have a proper discussion with her.if u r an indian all the more u should be worried about your commitment & responsibilities. india is built upon our responsibilities & commitments towards our family & society.
2007-03-11 23:42:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know this wrong why you are doing all this if your wife doing same thing how you realize just take some time and spend more times with your wife and family and try to understand and situation why the problem creating and resolve you both are don't involve any third person in your personal life
2007-03-11 23:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by ruchi s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You divorce your wife you don't deserve her. You are a cheat, go with that lady and save your wife from pain and agony she will face in the coming times .you will give her only ( tears and the one who deserves will never let her cry)
2007-03-12 00:20:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not love dear... That's desire - lust. Love induces responsibilities and desires pull you away from them. Better undserstand your priorities and concentrate on them.
All the best...
:-)
2007-03-12 07:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think of ur happiness, remember the commitment of Ur's done before marriage.... making promise is not difficult acting according to it is difficult....
2007-03-11 23:40:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋