hubbys mags/answers?

Question

thanks for answers, with the exception of women shouldnt use computers!, but the problem is that im hurt because he had hidden them in the boot of the car and that despite he tells me he loves me a millon times aday, im always the one who makes all the moves he never does, and that hurts more than the mags, surely a man should know to use some initiative .

Answer 1

Thank you baby!!!
Well why don't you try to speak to him?
Tell him who you fell.
Ask him if he still loves you.
To hear him saying i love you it's ok, but you need to fell it.
If someone is telling me i love you, then yes, it's OK in a way, but does he make me feel it? NO!!!
He needs to make you fell it,.
You need to fell that he loves, you, he needs to grow up, and act like a man!!

Answer 2

Wait until the opportune moment (eg over a lovely meal) and then ask him why.
Why does he want those mags?
Wouldn't he rather look at the real thing (You)
Would it not be good if he made the first move? (Tell him that you will sometimes play 'hard to get' so that he can have more fun 'persuading' you....but that you are keen to be 'persuaded') Do not do it in the middle of an argument...it could be counter-productive.

Do tell him that you love him.

Answer 3

Mens magazines can become compuslive/obsessive. Havent you seen any of them on Jeremy Kyle, LoL!

Believe me, its not personal. You can be in the happiest relationship in the world and still want to read those magazines.

Its a man thing! Would you rather he chase real women??

Answer 4

have you tried telling him that, not in the middle of a fight, that never works, men never listen they switch off during a fight, but when you are both just together, i had this problem with my hubby, and one day i just came right out and said 'why do you never make the first move' he honestly didnt realise it was always me, and from then on its been 50/50! good luck hun