hai well u c i kindah have a feeling for one of my friend. like last year but i didnt tell him.then i have another friend that is very close to me who was always there 4 me. as time goes by i know i fall in love wit the friend who is always with me.but the problem is i called him brother. and its just very hard to.not only that he is 8 years elder than me.i also feel he likes mebut its hard.but i really do like this guy... i know he is the one. i need a serious advice here.. plz help....
2007-03-11 23:19:45 · 20 answers · asked by elena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Last year i fell in love with one of my friend because he was having the characteristic that i like in a guy. He is everyone's dream boy as u can say. Then i have another friend who is 8 years elder than me who was very nc to me. Always thr to encourage me and it made me to be more positive about myself. One day he told me that he is leaving to china to work. It's was during that time that i realised my feeling towards him. i know i can nvr loose a person like this in my life. he is a vr understanding person ever willing to help me. I dont know why but at times i do feel that he likes me to. I just dont want to take any move coz i dont wanna loose a person like him. Well that is not the only problem i also called him "brother". wat should i do?
2007-03-12 18:10:41 · update #1
How do you expect serious advice from that load of crap ?
2007-03-11 23:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
sure you probably did the properly suited factor. you won't have the capacity to be envisioned to stay your life waiting on him to do his fatherly accountability. what's the difficulty with that guy? replaced into he merely attempting to exert some imagined ability over you and your daughter? i'm specific your daughter would be at a loss for words and disenchanted for a on a similar time as, nevertheless you won't see it, because it must be stored interior, yet at last she would have the capacity to understand. sounds like she has a loving mom.
2016-12-14 17:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you have to know what you really want. this way you can take the right action.
liking someone is a very serious thing especially if you really think that he is the one. it also might be that you have actually fallen inlove with already. age shouldnt matter if your feelings are geniune. talk to him about this and see if he does feel the same thing. but while you're not sure it is better no to expect anything too much so that you won't get hurt.
2007-03-11 23:30:52 · answer #3 · answered by dazednconfused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to be rude, but as the person before me eloquently pointed out, that was a bit hard on the brain to read.
Judging by your grammar, spelling, and cohesion (or lack thereof) I might say that you should wait a while until you are sure about wether or not you have found "the one."
There is plenty of time for stuff like this, and it appears that you have some growing to do in other areas of your life before you commit yourself to that kind of thing.
Just my .02
Hope this helps.
2007-03-11 23:26:07 · answer #4 · answered by p37ry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so... if a girl likes someone... and don't dare to tell is actually quite normal... like me... but the problem is, are u sure u like him?? or are u sure that he likes u? so... if you want to change your life abit... you should be more positive in anything... I mean if you want to join the relationship thing... u must first make sure that the person that u like likes u and u likes him... what if you are talking here but u are thinking of another person? that would be horrible...
2007-03-11 23:26:27 · answer #5 · answered by CELiNE:] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your best friend, he needs to know how you fell.
Tell him everything, it will be a little bit difficult, but how knows in the end.
If he doesn't like you the same way, they don't became, bad to him, try to stay the same way you where.
A good friend and nothing else.
You never know !!
Maybe hi fells the same like you.
I hope all the best to you.
Good luck.
2007-03-11 23:25:26 · answer #6 · answered by iona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could never fancy your brother so you have to make up your mind. Give yourself a bit of space from these two for a while and see how you feel then.
2007-03-11 23:27:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its okay. What is important is affection. At times it takes a while to realize there is really Love. Go for it. At times the caring makes u realize.
2007-03-11 23:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by plugin4fun-♡ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you like two guys at once?
Honestly, you should choose the one
that you feel the most comfortable with.
You know, the one who ccan make you smile
when you're down and the one that
knows (almost) all your secrets. ;)
If you think about which guy that is, it will
be easy to decide.
2007-03-11 23:24:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just look for signs. don't tell him cuz it may ruin your relations. ask for another question in yahoo answer about the signs to know whether a guy likes you or how can i make a boy fall in love with me cuz i love him. there are really good ppl around in here than me. don't tell him cuz he may make fun of you when he is with his other friends. i hope my info helped you. bye bye.
2007-03-11 23:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by love....me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that if hes 8 years older than you thats a bit too much, however you two have a relasionship thats even more special than girlfriend n boyfriend thats even more special because that bond cant break
2007-03-11 23:26:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋