Im 25 years old, pretty good looking, smart, have freinds, a masters degree and a well paying job. Im shy and tend to drag my feet when it comes to girls. Im also a virgin and never had a girlfreind. When dating new girls should I not tell them about the fact Im a virgin and never had a girlfreind? im afraid it might scare them away, thinking I might be to clingy and bad in bed.
2007-03-11 23:15:48 · 10 answers · asked by timdadevilsfan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell them if they ask you about ur past relationships and if they dont ask u dont have to tell them but tell them before u do anything that ur a virgin
2007-03-11 23:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy, and i have the best answer for you. 1st, never ask this question again. Be confident in your life, your sexual habits, and never care what someones opinion might be.
2nd, If you scare a woman away, she wasn't the right woman, the thing you shouldn't be telling people is how much money you make, and about your masters. Golddiggers are more dangerous than a woman who wants to take your virginity.
3rd, if you want a woman, and are very inexperienced, use it to your advantage. Laugh at yourself, tell the next woman you meet, "I'm the worst lay on earth, I have never had a girlfriend, I'm only saying this because some guy on the internet suggested it, (smile), but i can take you out to whatever place you'd like to go, and be a gentleman" After she laughs at you, she'll probably say your cute, at that time offer her your number. If she says no, smile and say you appreciate her time and that she's still beautiful even though she turned you down. Be creative with it, use humor, and being fun/open if you dont have experience with the other thing.
2007-03-11 23:26:34 · answer #2 · answered by Kyle E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Timothy, there's only one way to find out how good you are - just do it! There's a whole industry ready to service your initiation. At your age, it's the only way! UNLESS, you can find a girl who is also a first-timer and the two of you can go through the discovery process together.
You may be a virgin but surely you're not naive about female/male anatomy.......so just go with the flow....relax and let nature take its course.
Don't think if you're gonna be good or not --- this is not an exam --- just relax. Just do it!
2007-03-11 23:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not something I would really talk about on a date. Go with the flow...maybe just take it slow and hope for the best. Everyones first time is a little awkward so...good Luck!
2007-03-11 23:26:23 · answer #4 · answered by bundy_bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them before you have sex. It's always good to be open and honest, and hopefully it'll make you more comfortable to tell them beforehand. The right one will stay with you even tho youre a virgin!
2007-03-11 23:18:37 · answer #5 · answered by christina rose 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
urm ..i think u can tell them that until ur pretty comfortable together ...like on the 4th or even 5th date ! ... i donno why but i feel that ure kinda embarrassed coz ure a virgin n never had a gf ...theres nuttin to be embarrassed abt !!! i mean look at how u describe ureself ! gd luck ..be confident n let ure charm flows ( gals like guys like that ! ) im sure u will be able to attract the gal that u like :) gd luck
2007-03-11 23:21:43 · answer #6 · answered by Cassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell her then that's worse than dancing around her with a big red ball on your nose and a mop on your head
2007-03-11 23:26:31 · answer #7 · answered by GREEN FIRE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't mean if you never dated before therefore you cannot date... what if, u like somebody that is like you who never dated before? It can be... so... try to be positive... it does make things better...
2007-03-11 23:21:43 · answer #8 · answered by CELiNE:] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i aint no woman but it is a good idea to keep that to yourself cause they will think too much shyt that doesnt even matter. WHATEVER U DO DONT BREAK N TELL THEM ANY OF THAT.
2007-03-11 23:19:39 · answer #9 · answered by Romeo 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
tell them u should be open gurls like it when a guy is open about things like that..& if they run cuz ur a virgin n wat not than they aren't scared..they jus dont kno wat to do sumtimes n they don't want sumthing real ya kno..they should get to kno who u are b4 they juge u
2007-03-11 23:22:45 · answer #10 · answered by crazysmith187 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋