what are some good reasons to have a kid?

Question

he wants to have an abortion.need good reasons to want to have a kid when already pregnant

I just need advice cause my sister in law is going through this and she is really deviastated.she already have a kid he doesn't at 28.but she DO NOT want an abortion.thanks for all the advice.

Answer 1

You don't need good reasons to have a kid. If you don't want an abortion, don't get one. You will be the one who has to live with whatever decision you make, not him. Do not get an abortion because someone else wants you to. Besides, they'll ask you if you are there under your own free will and if there is any doubt, they won't perform the abortion. Just tell him you're not getting one and he needs to figure out how to deal with it. You do not need to justify your position. Best wishes and take care.

Answer 2

When men say abortion they are just ditching responsibility.You know what you dont need him. I had my son when I was 14 years and many people tryed to push my mother to let me have an abortion and she said no it was her granchild.Well as it turns out The doctor said its a good thing I was able to have him so young I couldnt have anymore . That child and I have toughed it out but He is a great kid.He just graduated trade school and Im really proud of him.He has changed my life,saved my life and given me reason to try to succeed in life.He funny hes crazy sometimes he has been downright bad.But when I had my son my Father was 70 he hung on for 18 years till he was grown .it seems like my son gave my father reason to live.He died last year at 88.Children add purpose to our lives but they do bring worries too.At any rate you are already pregnant .You have been blessed.Dont ever take for granted that you can have more kids later you may not be able to.Enjoy this special time in your life.It can be wonderful.Just get all the info you can.Im sure you will make a good mom. you obviously care.

Answer 3

A good reason to have a kid...well for starters, it sounds like you want to have the baby if I'm not mistaken...there are a million "good" reasons to have a baby...but the fact that he took a risk on getting you pregnant at some point is good reason for him to take responsibility! One very important thing to ask yourself is can you live with yourself if you do have an abortion? Can your relationship w/ him survive if you have an abortion against your will? Because if not, you may end up on your own either way. Good luck, and I hope you make the right decision for you and your child, not just what he wants.

Answer 4

ok im not gonna go into the proper reasons not to get rid of your baby, they r all right answers, so i will give u more reasons, now i have a 3 month ols, she is so cute, i dress her in cool clothes, like bootleg and skinny leg jeans{yes they sell these} she wears leggings under her skirts, she has a headband in every colour, she wears sunglasses outdoors, and when her hair grows i will b giving her some cool hairstyles, babies r alot of fun, they r great company, you cant go out and buy one, only u can make your own, u can then join a playgroup like me and make heaps of great friends, and most of all you will have the best gift that god could ever give you, u will never regret having your baby, they r a keeper.
good luck and make the best decision , to keep this baby, if u abort u will live with regret your whole life, take the chance youve got, have this baby, and b a damn cool mum, like me, haha

Answer 5

Because your innocent child is growing inside you. Your baby is depending on you both to make choices for it. Don't let him play the abortion card just to ditch responsibility. Its your body. Don't let anyone else make this choice for you. You don't have to come up with a list of reasons for him. Its not as if you are thinking about getting a puppy! The baby is a fact. The baby is a life growing inside you. Don't let him talk you into killing your kid. That baby is your child.

Answer 6

Since already pregnant, is God's gift. Financially stable, ability to keep the child then do so. Going for abortion has a certain risk. Some people might not have a high conceive rate after abortion and by doing that you also detoriated your own health.

Answer 7

Dont have an abortion. It might be tuff the first couple of years, however you will have a child to love. Scr*ew your bf, if he loves you he will support you in any way if not who needs him ( except for child payment hehe, which he will have to do) Also keep in mind, having an abortion reduces your chances of conceving another child. My mums friend had an abortion and from that day she could never get pregnant. Abortions do a horrible thing to your body, its completely unnatural!

Answer 8

To watch them grow up and to nuture them this is some good reasons, then when they grow up to have someone to be proud of and to have grandchildren this is another, let me tell you I am mother to one he is now eighteen years old and even though I can not be proud of him I still love him and another thing I was in the very same boat as you my husband did not want kids, but I finally talked him into having one by asking all the time and begging him to have children and it worked.

Answer 9

your pregnant thats a good enough reason, you really sound like you dont want to abort, it is completely your choice. he needs to stand up and take responsibility. it takes two to tango. you'll have regrets if you do abort and its rare to find a person who regrets having their children they will always love you even if your partner doesn't. as for finances don't worry about that too much unless your a millionaire you'll have hard times with money, you learn to adapt. waiting until your financial is a silly reason to wait. goodluck i hope he realises what he will miss when you decide to have this baby

Answer 10

It's your choice, and you will probably hate yourself if you abort it (otherwise you wouldn't be asking this). Also remember that you don't need to keep it just because you choose not to abort it. There are many couples that would love the ability to parent a healthy baby (and often time they will take care of medical expenses, legal expenses, travel expenses+)