The first man>> my X boyfriend, and he said still love me.
The Second>> rich but not handsome.
The Third>> Handsome but younger then me.
How i going to choose......................
2007-03-11 21:57:20 · 15 answers · asked by gin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a no-brainer for me.........if I were in your shoes, I'd pick the one I love. Period.
I wouldn't even say I'd pick the one whom I love best. That answer presupposes that I love the other guys too, only in lesser degrees. That's not love...that's a multiple choice test.
Only you would know your true feelings. If you are having a difficult time deciding which one among the 3, it is my opinion that you are not in love (in the truest sense of the word) with any of them.
But if you're not considering a trip to the altar anytime soon, then it's perfectly okay to pick (just for the heck of choosing). I vote for man # 1 (the ex)...at least he's already tried and tested...if you know what I mean.
Good Luck...SMILE!
2007-03-11 22:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you know that the hottest guy on the outside can turn out to be the ugliest guy on the inside,and the guy that you thought was'nt the cutest can turn out to be the most handsome man you ever met.So dont totaly discard the rich guy but dont just go for it because of the money.Follow your heart it will usually guide you in the right direction.
2007-03-12 05:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About the first choice. If he broke it the first time, them there's no promise that he will not do it again. But you can always give it a try.
Second one- Looks can be deceiving. So you never know whether this person is the right one or not.
Third- Age no bar!
What matters is whom you consider is the one for you? Who do you think will make you happy and not break you? Everything else is future talk.
2007-03-12 05:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by rhyme2rbr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or try a Novel approach? and let Your Heart decide? Afterall, isn't The Heart. Where Love is suppose to be? I know I've read that, somewehre? Oh! That's right. It was Me who said it. `scuse me, while I kiss the sky!
2007-03-12 05:03:29 · answer #4 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First man; Good result.
Second man; You'll divorce him when he will get bankrupt.
Third man; Appearance does not matter.
Advice: You and he must still love each other. Personality matters the most.
2007-03-12 05:05:00 · answer #5 · answered by Kaka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the easiest way to choose is whom you feel love for! money gets spent, looks fade, but a heartfelt emotional connection is deeper that those other things. Choose whom you feel love for. Your choice will always be right when you do it for love. Good luck.
2007-03-12 05:01:09 · answer #6 · answered by holly_grimoire_1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who do you love? what do u have to offer? what do you want in a man? come on, grow up!!!!
i would choose the one that makes me happy and that i am myself with.
looks fade
money doesnt always last
and the one that still loves u, love dies.
so u need to make a mature decision. and u do that by answering the questions above.
2007-03-12 05:01:51 · answer #7 · answered by braille 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one you love the most.
Love Amie A
2007-03-12 05:00:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, if i were u i would go with the x-boyfriend, i mean, do u still have feelings for him? ...if so, get back with him...and its not that big of a deal...i mean do u plan on marrying one of them? of course not, its just a boyfriend, just go with the one u have most feelings for, and a guy having brains is also nice too;P ooh, feelings and kindness too;P
2007-03-12 05:03:38 · answer #9 · answered by Eskimo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose the one YOU really love. It doesn't sound as if you really love any of them, so why not just date for awhile instead of choosing anyone?
2007-03-12 05:21:40 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋