Her family does not like me, they tell her lies about me like i only want her 4 sex. they have threatened me with a baseball bat. I would die for her i'm running out of ways or ideals to be with her. and i'm the only one who puts myself on the line for her. any help plz!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-11 21:30:55 · 13 answers · asked by kevin e 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen up...if her parents are running after you with a baseball bat..these people are not right in the head...you don't give your age..so I am assuming you are both young...so my advice to you is to lay low and wait until you both are older before perusing this relationship...if these people are unhinged ...you are liable to get yourself killed over this...you say you love her...so just wait..this love will not disappear ..look at it this way..a couple of years might sound like a life time...but if they end up killing you...it will be your life time.......so ,just don't take no chances...your time will come .....
by the way,...don't do this
http://www.crimelibrary.com/notorious_murders/young/borden_and_ludwig/index.html
I am not joking..this guys life is over with....was what he done worth it....NOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!
Be smart...and wait........
2007-03-11 22:10:26 · answer #1 · answered by LeftField360 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how u feel dude - been there, done that...(& I still feel a little embarresed now when I think about 'her".) but then there was another 1. same thing... Later on a coupla years, another girl/.woman, same! By this time, i was beginning 2 know myself, & had learned I did better w/em if I cud [& did learn 2] CHILL - act like I didn't care even...cuz that's more "normal", & it don't freak people out as much..LEARN 2 B COOL. Girls/women do want 2 b noticed, & wanted, but they don't want some idiot droolin' & actin' all wierd. That can b (2 them) like, ALARMING, man. Give 'em a little space & air..I mean it's cool 2 smile..(they'll know anyway), but force urself (at this point) 2 leave their area - dont wear out ur welcome. It'll even make some of them come track U DOWN! - (& that's a whole lot better deal! That's when it's SWEET~ [i'm serious dude - ] so it's, CHECK URSELF..,& then u can "check urself out", when u b "stylin' & profilin' w/a line at ur behind"! [Can u smell whut I been steppin in?]
2007-03-12 05:06:32 · answer #2 · answered by nomutilation4me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever make a girl feel like she has to choose between you and her family. Just tell her that you love her very much, but you're not going to be the person to come in between her and her family and just let her know that you'll wait for her no matter how long it takes for her and her family to come around. Thats the best thing you can do.
2007-03-12 04:35:54 · answer #3 · answered by oo_m_i_c_h_e_l_l_e_oo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no art to find the minds construction on the face so says Shakespear. Either you keep on trying to prove your love to her or you run for your young life before they batter your head with the baseball bat.
2007-03-12 04:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by comradechris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baseball bat that could hurt whats there reason 4 that somthing dosnt sound right sounds like your not the only one putting putting there selves on the line
2007-03-12 04:35:38 · answer #5 · answered by crengle60 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your question.
"I really love this girl, in fact she is the only person I have really ever loved."
You are closing out the fact that in the past or present that you love or loved others as well: Your family, your friends, or people that know and care for you. If you do not have a clue who they are, go ahead and ask the people who you suspect love you.
It sounds like your love for your girlfriend is a bit one-sided, meaning you are obsessively in love with her or just in love with her. It's not Love, it is called Infatuation.
If your girlfriend is very close to her family, you are going to be in a big disappointment that she is going to chose her family over your loving affections. It's going to be so complicated for her that she will feel suffocated in her relationship with you and say, "I need my space." Your love is not responding to her needs for making choices. I had a boyfriend like you once, and he so suffocated me because he did not make me feel free in making choices. It was always him that wanted me to be with him. It's very unhealthy. I had to get a restraining order on that ex of mine because he was stalking me, when I told him, "I didn't love him! I received phone calls that would go through the roof with his crazy "I love you, don't leave me!!" My family did not like him either because he was trying too hard to please the family. I got so annoyed when he started flashing his money in my Mother's face saying, "I could take care of Felicia, I love her...do you love her this much?"
Please be patient in your relationship with your girlfriend and don't give her ultimatums to chose between you or her family. It's only for her to decide.
If you love her, give her some space to think. Being constricting in the relationship is not love at all. It is called suffocation. Please avoid restraining orders or read up books in the library about "Love Addiction".
2007-03-12 04:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by Agent319.007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i know how that feels, my family's against my bf too for the same reason, i would suggest u go to her family and ask politely if u'd be allowed to see their daughter.
the fact that they threatened u with a bad suggests that u might have done something really bad to make them do that
neway, stop sneakin and tell em
best of luck :)
2007-03-12 04:40:16 · answer #7 · answered by eternaly 13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, man, her family really does hate you. Why do they hate you?? That is porbably the biggest problem you have right now. You did or said something that made them hate you, and now you've got to fix it. Come clean and honest, and that will solve the problem. Good luck
2007-03-12 04:34:43 · answer #8 · answered by sahire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go (unless she has declared undying love for you only). when the family is involved it is a huge mess....and there are a million bzillion once in a life time girls out there that you can get to know
2007-03-12 04:34:51 · answer #9 · answered by nonphysical 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Elope with her.. That's the only available option. Otherwise ask her to ignore her parents and convince her that they are just lying.
2007-03-12 04:37:12 · answer #10 · answered by Booyah! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋