your brother's friend? yes or no? would it be too awkward? i really like my older brother's friend. it's just that they hang out with the same click... (which includes my 2 bros, and 1 sister)and i know all the people who they hang out with...I just dont hang out with them....so if i do date him or ask him out, everyone is gonna know about it.... we live in a small town. what should i do?
2007-03-11 21:09:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
weird but i kinda feel like i dont want to tell anyone that i like him, except one of my sisters. maybe i shouldn't date him..? he's unemployed and he also has a drug problem.
2007-03-11 21:26:18 · update #1
drugs?.... no, i really don't think you should go out with him, but if you really like him you should tell him, it might not go as you planned ( i've been there ), but you should know if there really could be something between you two
2007-03-19 12:49:26 · answer #1 · answered by Jennie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you like a guy that is unemployed and has a drug problem... thats the most ridiculous logic i've ever heard. maybe you're a little antsy to get into a relationship, just wait for a good guy, that has you and a future in mind. dont start something with a guy thats going to grow up and be a 35 yr old man smoking pot and doing drugs in his mothers garage. good luck
2007-03-20 03:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by Lacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, hehe the awnser is NO. First of all, you like this guy and im sure that if you guys went out, drugs would come up at some point, and he would want you to do them with him, and you could be blinded by how much you like him to reject his offer, and get hooked on them, then have him brake up with you for somone else..(theres a chance) secound of all..you dont even hang out with him, or his freinds..how do you know him really, he may b differnt around you, because your his freinds sister, what if hes a complete asshole in real life, and you dont want anyone finding out, so i say dont go for it, if its ment to be, hell come to you, but make sure he stops doing drugs, or doesnt do them around you.
2007-03-19 22:15:18 · answer #3 · answered by xox Rebekah xox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hanging out with your brothers is pretty awsome i know i did and loved every minute of it i felt safe,and in control, but listen if this dude has a drug problem,the last thing you should be doing is going out with him,because if your brothers are like mine,your bros might end up beating the crap out of this guy and end up in trouble themselves.my advice ;;talk to your brothers about this guy,AND WHAT EVER THEY TELL YOU LISTEN TO THEM THEY KNOW HOW HE REALLY IS''''''''''''
2007-03-20 00:00:15 · answer #4 · answered by Linda K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sort of in the same boat.. my boyfriend is bestfriends with my best friend's brother.. and we all used to hang out together. it's a little awkward in the beginning, but it's totally worth it! although a LOT has changed with our friendships, especially on my end, he makes me happy...
and that's what's important you know, happiness...
be with the man who makes you happy :)
2007-03-12 04:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by ashwee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it only if your brother says it okay because, youre brother may know him better than you do.
It should not be that much of a big deal if the guy is respectable.
2007-03-12 04:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by Quite Frankly with TheFokalist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your brothers friend if he is interested and then he can tell your brother and then see what happens from there.
2007-03-12 04:13:26 · answer #7 · answered by tazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely nope....imagine it if you were really having thta relationship,normally guyz share their stories of their girl to their friends and its pretty awkward to think that they're discussing about you..it'll also be awkward for your brother to hear his friends stories on you.like the way you kiss or the way you turn him on..
its really not possible... its something pretty awkward...
2007-03-20 01:58:24 · answer #8 · answered by mysticbluz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont. It would ruin the friendships. Think about it, if you break up then it's gonna be someone's fault, and obviously not yours.
2007-03-12 04:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by James W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no--because they are gonna get together and compare things that they did to you---or when you break up with the other--they are gonna harrass you!
2007-03-20 03:01:56 · answer #10 · answered by destine4_69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋