Friendly verses Flirty?
I just want to know some key rules. What are some BIG no nos and whats okay to do when you have a boyfriend and your with another guy, who could be a guy friend, someone you just met, someone from work, his friend, etc. What are some examples of being TOO friendly, is you know what i mean
2007-03-11 20:57:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, wow thanks i didnt know
2007-03-11 21:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by ihate c 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It varies for everyone however, in my opinion flirting is in most of our common nature. When it becomes more than flirting then there is a problem. People can say if you touch its too far, or if you kiss you crossed that boundary. The thing is we each know when we have crossed that line, it is whenever we feel guilty for making a move (big or small). Once you have guilt for leading him on... touching ...flirting then it i wrong. The problem is our feelings can be deceiving and make us want what we don't have. That's how I feel on the subject. Good luck with the situation.
2007-03-12 04:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any touching is a no no, other than that let the games begin. I am sure your boyfriend would want a say though. Not all guys have a ok to flirt rule.
2007-03-12 04:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by littlegrizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rule # 1 - don't touch. i know many guys and i'm good friends with a lot of them. but you're too friendly when you touch them. don't rub their backs, hands, shoulders, legs, anything.
rule #2 - if your boyfriend does it, it's usually okay if you do too. my boyfriend always greets his friend chris with a hug, they've known eachother for 15 years. therefore, it's okay for me to hug chris goodbye/hello
rule #3 - don't say anything you wouldn't want your boyfriend saying to another girl. if you'd get mad if your boyfriend said another girl was sexy, don't say another man is sexy.
rule #4 - window shopping. it's human nature to "browse" what's on the market. but always revert back to rule #1.
2007-03-12 04:03:48 · answer #4 · answered by ashwee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to have a guy friend, but try to know the guy's intention first, and there's something else, don't hide ur friendship from ur boyfriend,
2007-03-12 04:22:30 · answer #5 · answered by concerned 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think you would treat this guy friend the same way you would want your man to treat a girl friend don't do what you don't want done to you.
2007-03-12 04:06:37 · answer #6 · answered by BIZGIG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Flirty is flaunting your gender to the opposite one.
Say for girls, wiggle your hips as you walk, do the Shakira and a little of babydoll.
Boys would be, umm...I dunno flexing muscles or something?
I dunno I'm not a boy.
:D
A big no-no is hitting on a person that obviously just wants to be a friend. go slowly and if he/she edges away, stop it.
2007-03-12 04:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by Mystikdancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No b/c if you have a bf than you should know the answer to that if you are mature enough to date.
2007-03-12 04:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Swallowing is nut sauce would be crossing the line.
2007-03-12 04:01:24 · answer #9 · answered by D in SD 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be yourself,i feel your boyfriend will let you know if you go to far
2007-03-12 04:03:08 · answer #10 · answered by fatdadslim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋