i have a guy interested in me i've met through a work mate but only talk to him via internet & sms.he wants to meet up and the last 2 times i have realised i don't want to.he was fine with it (thinks i'm really honest and couldnt make it even though i made up an excuse).I am really shy but I am also not interested in being with him so i get scared when he calls me hot stuff all the time and how he wants to be with me. I've told him i dont want a bf at the moment and he says i dont know him so how do i know i wont want to be with him.hes been told by my work mate to go for it with asking me out.hes a nice guy but bigger than the type i go for. i'm not physically attracted to him and he is 2 years younger than me and doesnt seem to have the same wants and plans for the future as me. when i pretended a girl i knew liked him he jumped at wanting to go out with her. i think he is young and simply wants a girlfriend. how do i tell him i'm not interested in even meeting him? am i being picky?
2007-03-11 20:38:48 · 2 answers · asked by ppl_tell_me_im_insane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You tell him you're not interested in meeting him. You don't need to make excuses--it's your life and your choice. If you feel you must make an excuse tell him you met someone and even though you don't want a boyfriend you are somewhat curious about this new guy and don't feel right about seeing two guys at the same time.
2007-03-11 20:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by D in SD 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
younger dudes are usually all about one thing that may lead to breakfast.. he wants to be with you but for all the wrong reasons...
2007-03-12 03:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by LION 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋