Why do guys feel the need to ask me about my friend?

Question

Ok so im at a club dancin whatever and my friend is dancing with some dude or talking to some other guy and all of a sudden I think some guy is trying to talk to me, but instead he asks about my friend and how shes getting it on the dance floor or something like that. That **** bothers me so freakin much. Next time im going to say do you want to talk to her. Ladies does this happen to you?

Answer 1

I call it a "cope out" really but since these are insecure times its the easiest way to test the waters on a possible prospect. Don't expect much better then that thou your in a club. Its just one of the many ways a boy "man" can run some "game" on a lady. Give them some credit for trying atleast. I know it isn't really trying but people tend to do what has worked for them in the past. You can just start a new trend and every time a guy does that just mark him as "insecure" and put a warning out that he isn't one to miss with. But unfornatly that might make it harder on you and your prospects. Its the times even us guys have to deal with that, sucks when shes cute and you wish she was asking about you...