I have know this girl sense aug. 14 of 05'! We dated a few times in sept. of that year! Then for some reason of that year in october we stopped talking! And she met another guy and they became gf and bf the 16th of oct. of 05! She finally decided to contact me again out of know where on aug. 28 of 2006! And we have been together secretly ever sense! I Love her and she loves me but she also loves this other guy! He has a tendance sometimes to be grumpy when he gets home rom work so they'll get in fights! And in those fights sometimes he'll grab her and sometimes push her back! In grabbing her he bruises her!And even once he punched her in the chest!I When i heard that i really wanted to kick the guys ***! but she told me not to do anything! I just don't get why she is still with him! She says she dosen't have an emotional attraction to him but a physical attraction!Which totally confused me! But she said she loves me with both an emotional and physical one! What should i do or tell her?
2007-03-11 20:03:42 · 3 answers · asked by slie930 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think she thinks of you as a filler. Whenever she is with her bf and has a fight, she comes to you. Basically, you are filling the part she needs when she is not getting it from her other bf. It is possible that she can love you and him at the same time, so she can be with both of you. You seem to be more in love with her than she is with you, it is easier for her to keep you as a filler rather than some other guy.
My suggestion for you is if you want a straightforward relationship with her, ask her to dump the other guy and be with you. If she refuses, then you dump her and move on. Don't be clinging on to someone who will just use you for something selfish as affection. Good luck
2007-03-11 20:14:34 · answer #1 · answered by CBRRider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not as much as you. Any measures you're taking to make him seem that he's yours to those women persons will purely make him experience smothered and such as you do no longer have confidence him. the final element you're able to do is have confidence him whilst he says he would not smash up with you over something like that. too plenty jealousy is often a deal breaker and would end longer lasting relationships than yours. you are able to tell him approximately your concerns and ask him to make it sparkling to others which you are the only female in his existence yet then you certainly ought to drop it. And please do no longer tell your boyfriend of one week which you're in love with him.
2016-11-24 21:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by shawn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her Good-Bye, as you no longer wish to be part of her cheating on her boyfriend. As a farewell present, give her the number to the domestic violence hotline.
2007-03-11 20:10:56 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋