just wondering. I have a minimum three month rule now. what do you think?
2007-03-11 20:02:44 · 8 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't like rules like that. Like girls or guys that don't kiss on the first date, that annoys me. I do believe in waiting awhile for sex, but setting a perfect date just doesn't work. You can't help when you find the person that is amazing for you. I used to think that at least four months should be waited on, after you're 18 years old at least. Then, I met the boyfriend I'm with now that I love more than I could ever explain, we've been together 1 year and 6 months and we live together. And ya know what, we ended up having sex after dating officially for only a couple weeks. I thought I rushed it, but I don't regret it. Go with what feels right, don't let him push you into it at ALL.
2007-03-11 20:11:33 · answer #1 · answered by redheaded_me18 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The 'IT' is worth waiting only for the 'One' :D
Frankly speaking, making a man wait for 'IT' has no time frame at all.
For 'IT' to happen, u just hv to wait for the right time, we cannot purposely go and plan 'IT' unless u wan to hv kids (if u r married, family planning)..
It doesn't matter how long u make a man wait for 'IT'.. as long as the man understands u wan to feel comfortable and not just jump into 'IT' which might give him the wrong impression of u :)
"IT" is a sacred thing, despite we are living in Year 2007 now.. liberal thinking and stuff.. i still feel is best to have "IT" with some 1 whom u really love and he loves u equally..
So your 3 month rule..is perfectly fine :) ...
2007-03-11 20:16:01 · answer #2 · answered by Beautiful Me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
3 years.
2007-03-11 20:06:31 · answer #3 · answered by rawr8512 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I made my bf of 10 years wait for almost 6 years and thats how it works. Dont be easy for anyone. Just do it when you are sure its for him. Respect yourself and then others will respect you.
2007-03-11 20:07:17 · answer #4 · answered by MafiaGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on a few things, how old you are, I am assuming you are past 20, how old he is, if he is a good guy or a player,are you dating or together as a commited couple...be more specific with your question and trust me I will give you the info you need to know
2007-03-11 20:10:11 · answer #5 · answered by nena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Till after you're married. That's what I'm doing.
2007-03-11 20:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by Cardiophobia <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geesh, more like "is he gay?" I am all over it if there is attraction, but my husband made me wait a month :-(
2007-03-11 20:21:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds good to me, I was thinking a couple months.....and then, only if it feels right.
2007-03-11 20:06:40 · answer #8 · answered by christina rose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm married. it can be a loooong time, depending on my mood.
2007-03-11 20:08:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋