i need help... my cousin is like my best friend but she can get on last neves sometimes... she says she loves my boyfriend... she calls him right after he comes out of school and gets mad at me when she knows im talking to him. he has noticed that she acts like his girlfriend but he just sees her like a friend. she is always hopeing for a chance with him but its hard to let my baby go. i love him alot but i also start to feel bad for my cousin sometimes. cuz she has never had a boyfriend and she says i ruend her first love... what should i do??
2007-03-11 19:54:41 · 7 answers · asked by MIMI LOVES WHO?? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is discussion of truth time. she is trying to steal your boyfriend isnt she? she says you ruined her first love...
but it is SHE who ruined your relationship between you and that boyfriend of your's. she says that so she can have a chance to be together with that guy!!!!! she acts like his girlfriend to make you jealous. and maybe to attract your love. she acts like that probably to make you jealous. so you might break up with your love and she might have a chance.
but, my fren had this problem once and i helped her solve it.
here is advice.
no. 1) try discussion of truth. it always help.
no. 2) ignore her. if she become mad at you, ignore her. say " he is my boyfriend. why are you doing this? why are you mad at me when i have the right to talk to him? why are you wanting to find a chance to be his girlfriend instead?" it might help. but then, if no reasonable answer comes, ignore her, or just ignore her after you said what i told you to say to her.
no. 3) the worse idea of all, fight. with a bam and a oof! and a ouch! that will not help. it will only make her hopes up more.
no. 4) find a perfect guy for her. but it maybe hard. so dun try it but u can spread it.
oh yeah, for no. 2, you can add more challenging questions about what she is doing to you! it might help more!
2007-03-11 20:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by Bluey306 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that is complicated but your best friend doesnt really love the guy. the only way u love someone is if u talk, and spend a lot of time with that person. now on the other hand if she does love him then that is her problem cause she knows you're going out with him from the beginning so why try and pursue him if he is already takin. u dont havta let him go, if yall love each other then be together. try and introduce her to a friend of his or a brother or something. she will eventually get over him. she is just confused. one last thing..if i was u, i would tell your boyfriend to stop talking to your cousin so much cause that can lead to some real big problems down the line
2007-03-11 20:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by Romeo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her problem, not yours.
If your boyfriend loves you, he does, and if you love him, you do.
Ignore her actions. She's trying to "Get Even" with you for the past, as she sees it.
Just be her cousin. Be happy.
2007-03-11 20:01:27 · answer #3 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your cousin to respect you and not make a fool of her self lol
2007-03-11 20:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's YOUR boyfriend, ur cousin needs to back off and find her own...
2007-03-11 20:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by MissCrys 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your cuz to get over it, and that he's yours and not interested in her that way. if she can't accept it, have him tell her that he sees her as a friend only. if she doesn't get that, she's dense and hopeless. sorry.
2007-03-11 20:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
punch her in the face.
2007-03-11 19:58:38 · answer #7 · answered by frankiethunders 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋