Why making decision is difficult?How a pessimist can changr himself to a moderate optimist?

Answer 1

Here is are some very simplistic answers to your complicated questions:

Decision making is difficult primarily because, when given a set of alternatives, choosing one typically means rejecting the others. Hence, "you can't have your cake and eat it, too." It is this rejection of other possibilities which is frightening, especially when the "best" choice is unclear. If it makes you feel any better, though, social psychology research strongly supports the fact that you will believe in your answer even more firmly after you've made that difficult decision!

As for changing a pessimist into an optimist, that will take a lot of work and (please excuse the psycho-therapy pun) you have to be ready to change... You could try a cognitive-behavioral model and just try to creatively think of positive reactions to everything..but honestly... If someone really wants to try the optimistic lifestyle, I'd recommend some time on the (therapist's) couch...or at least a lot of introspection.

Answer 2

any sort of depression can be tide over by faith in GOD and sincere prayer.

Your prayer is from your heart. Further You must have to understood the fact that God is present in our heart. This can be realised in meditation. Further we are the creation of our own destiny. As per Hindu sacred religion, we carry all good and bad deeds life after life. There is no end unless we pray for unification of self with the divineliness.
Hence there is always a possible way to complete mergence with God in this life by a simple and wonderful meditation

Answer 3

I have just the thing to get you off the fence so to speak,
you need to watch a movie called the secret!! I promise it will revolutionize your problem here!! Watch it!! What do you have to lose?
God Bless~~

Answer 4

I'ma wuss and I use a system for making decisions - any time I have more than one choice.

Want to know what it is?