I am 22 and I have had three children. having them has caused my brest to shrink and sagg I want to get them back to where they were a full b cup.I want to be able to wear more form fitting clothes and I just want to feel good about my self.My husband tells me my body is beautiful but I know he would love to see them the way they were when we met at 16.Im very embarrased to let him see me naked.Is it wrong for a christian to get inplants?Is this vanity?
2007-03-11 19:35:26 · 25 answers · asked by goodgirl5567 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Yes my husband knows and he said that he wants me to be happy and its only wrong if my intentions are to tempt people to lust after me(we both know thats not me)but I want to hear what other people think.Yes we can afford it and I whould never do anything that took away from my children.Please no christion bashing respect my beliefs, as i whould respect yours.
2007-03-11 20:01:39 · update #1
Yes my husband knows and he said that he wants me to be happy and its only wrong if my intentions are to tempt people to lust after me(we both know thats not me)but I want to hear what other people think.Yes we can afford it and I would never do anything that took away from my children.Please no christion bashing respect my beliefs, as i would respect yours.
2007-03-11 20:02:51 · update #2
No, it's not wrong. The only time where it would be wrong,or an unchristian thing to do, is if you had these HUGE honkers put in so you could make money as a stripper or porn star.
You don't fall into that catagory. You just want to please your husband. I think that's sweet and noble.
Get them! The both of you will be very happy.
Don't worry. There's nothing wrong with your logic here.
It makes perfect sense.
2007-03-11 19:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by Molly 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
vanity, pride, inciting lust, sinful, yes. The question is, is it really that big of a sin if the good it will do for your own self image out weighs the bad. I'm sure your husband doesn't look 16 anymore either, and getting implants might actually make him feel a little insecure--have you discussed that possibility with him yet? They didn't have such surgeries back when the bible was written, and we had shorter life expectancies, so a woman of 25 was considered old and having 3 kids was a blessing. I believe God has updated with the world, so it's what is in your heart that matters
2007-03-11 19:43:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
it rather is bc we are jealous. Im somewhat that way myself in specific circumstances, yet you're certainly perfect! i in my view have d's and no i do no longer opt for implants, yet i'm finding into having them "surgically" altered. i do no longer likely think of it is going to rely. we actually merely could desire to income to be greater accepting and much less jealous of what others have. all of us choose some thing to make us experience greater effective approximately ourselves and if a boob interest does it and we pay for it with our very own money, what's the vast deal?
2016-10-01 23:41:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. God deals with us from a spiritual standpoint, not physical. It will have no impact on your relationship with the Lord. There is no scripture that forbids this, granted this was not an issue back when the bible was written(but then again it says there is nothing new under the sun), but God is the same yesterday, today and forever.
Look at David and everything he did in his life....yet God said he was a man after his own heart. Spritual....did not affect Davids relatioship with God.
2007-03-11 19:40:19 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Momma 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Vanity is a sin.You should be much more concerned with Thanking God for blessing You with three children and a loving husband.
2007-03-11 20:09:06 · answer #5 · answered by gwhiz1052 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not Christian, but I don't think that God or Jesus really cares about trivial things such as this. I think if it makes you feel better and makes you a happier person, you should go for it. Being a happier person and feeling better about yourself is likely to affect other areas of your life - being a wife, being a mother, being a friend - in good ways. Again, go for it girl.
2007-03-11 19:42:25 · answer #6 · answered by eastchic2001 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is vanity. You have to find you self worth in Jesus, feel good about yourself. Jesus created you in His image. I would pray and ask God to help you get through this. If your husband says that you are beautiful then take him at his word. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Jesus says that you are beautiful. When God made you he broke the mold, there is no one out there like you. He created you to praise Him. Just begin to thank God for who you are and how you look.
2007-03-11 19:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by KingDavid6268 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, we're all allowed a little bit of vanity, or else we wouldn't wear pretty clothes or do our hair or makeup. I think you should go with it if YOU want it, not just because you think your husband wants it (which, remember, he said he loves you just the way you are.) It's not like you're aiming for those basketball-sized implants, you just want a b-cup. The main thing to consider, agan, is if you want it for YOURSELF. Good luck in whatever choice you make!
2007-03-11 19:39:29 · answer #8 · answered by Casey 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
hmmm, yor a christian right?...then u know that God loves u and created you to be the way u r, why change what God created and planned...He loves just the way u r and so does yor husband! why waste tons of money for yor boobs when u could spend it on yor luved ones...such as yor children...and further more, dont b ashamed of yor body...:P
2007-03-11 19:47:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im not a christian but rationally thinking about it,i dont think its wrong at all....youre not hurting anybody or doing aything unconventional.Youre just doing something good for yourself...nothing wrong with that.
2007-03-11 19:39:30 · answer #10 · answered by Bella 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋