I was in great shape before but now i look at my self and think what have i done over a boy if u have any advice that would be great!!!!
2007-03-11 19:31:47 · 9 answers · asked by princess 4 1 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
Please don't even waist your time on him, as you see was it worth it, look what you did, now get on your feet and do the right thing, quit playing games with ass holes.
2007-03-11 19:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by sweepit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing, men like women of all shapes and sizes what one considers fat another thinks is skinny. If you let others comments do this to you everytime you are going to be a wreck both physically and mentally. Boy's come and go but you need your health forever. My sis was/is anorexic when she was young and now she is married, healthy and now wants a family but because of what she did in her teens and early 20's she can't have kids as it ruined her ovaries and also thinned her hair out and ruined her teeth[she needed to have them all capped] and all of this because she was afraid of being fat. The good news is she is better now and eats healthy.
Please don't let anybody rule and ruin your life over words. Try to be strong and make sure you are in control!
After all is said and done try to remember that the heart is the dumbest organ in our body, listen to your brain and only when these to agree act on it.
Good luck, now go eat something! ; }
2007-03-12 02:47:57 · answer #2 · answered by NotSoTweetOne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm stop starving yourself, because of one stupid person's opinion of you. Have you ever read "The Four Agreements"? You should if you haven't then you will know what to do about that. Don't take anything personal, if you weigh 290 pounds and you love your body screw everyone else and what they think. They don't have to look at you if they don't like it. Go eat a big cheeseburger with fries. Get some meat on your bones. You liked yourself the way before, so don't change.
2007-03-12 02:37:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Eat sensibly and get on an exercise program. Starving yourself to stay thin, will only do you harmin the long run. Sounds like you ran into a jerk, try not to let what others say affect you.
It's easy to say and difficult to do, but if you react the way they want you to it just gives them a perverse sense of accomplishment. Some people are cruel and just don't care about other people's feelings.
2007-03-12 02:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by Kainoa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our self-image can be affected by someone's stupid comments...why do we allow that? Well you sound smart and the fact you are realizing it already that you are getting too skinny is really good...means you see that it isn't good, and losing weight because of someone's comment is even worse...so good for you that you see it...NO GUY or no one should bring us down - we shouldn't allow anyone to make us feel bad about ourselves. I know, it's easier said than done...but you see it and he's not worth your health or state of mind!
Eat healthy and ignore idiots like him!
2007-03-12 02:43:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just eat a balanced healthy diet dont let someone else bring you down. i bet your pretty hot. not eating much can reallly be bad for the cells in your body. they need vitamins, minerals, and proteins as well as mono and poly UNsaturated fats. you sound like a nice girl screw em.
2007-03-12 02:40:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is completely normal for a girl to want to starve/diet over a guy.. and the sad thing is... we can't do anything about our emotions... even if we want to stop dieting... that thought of a comment that one stupid prick made... still lingers in our mind.... you just have to decide to move past it and quit beating your self up... your self image is far more important... than his image of you. this is for all my girls from around the world who come across a man that don't respect your worth. thinking all women should be seen not heard.. we just have to shout out.. and stop letting guys treat us like we are all supposed to look a certain way... i have f*cking had it!! we need to let them know were gonna stand our ground!! just lift your hands higher and wave them proud!! just take a deep breath and say it loud and proud.... 'you can't hold me down... '
god made you the way you are.... and thats the way your gonna be... no matter who doesn't like it...
best of wishes sent your way.
love always... Britt
"Nobody can hold you down!!"
2007-03-12 02:39:01 · answer #7 · answered by Britt 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yep. Eat a big cheeseburger and find someone who can be mature enough to accept you for who you are.
2007-03-12 02:37:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
binge eat
2007-03-12 02:34:31 · answer #9 · answered by schfifty_55_five 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋