my husband and I love each other very much, but he knows I am a very sexual person and has recently told me it's okay with him if I have sex with other guys as long as I don't develop feelings (LOVE) for the other guys...and he gets very turned on by knowing I'm with another guy or sharing me with another guy. What do you all think?
2007-03-11 19:11:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BTW...he has shared me with other guys and knows I've slept with other guys...I really don't mind if he sleeps with another chick, just as long as she's cute!!
2007-03-11 19:20:48 · update #1
MMMM... ever been spanked ?
2007-03-14 22:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ewww. This is not ok. The fact is that he probably is very turned on thinking about you with another man, but this would not benefit either one of you or your marriage. This usually ends in disaster, ie: divorce. Don't do it...just spice up what you already have.
2007-03-11 19:18:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not good!!! what if your husband gets a girl pregnant????? what if you get pregnant by another man??? what if our hisband starts to develop feelings for another women he is sleeping with and leaves you for this other women? what s you like another man that your sleeping with better than your husband??
this isnt doing anything to help your marriage....why would you want to do this anyways??? you get married to be with that one person till death do you part.
if your going to have sex with other men...then whats the point in being married????
2007-03-13 16:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by cutiepieee♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iam married myself and i could never do that even with my husband blessing but everyone is different you have to make sure ur both emotional ready for this ..my aunt and uncle are married have been for 25 or more years they tried this..they agreed to both see other ppl he saw another woman while she shopped around when she found herself a man her husband completly changed his tune and no longer want HER to do this ...i hope ur husband wouldnt see you being with another man as a good chance for him to be with other woman behind ur back ..it all depends on how u would feel if the shoe were on the other foot ...
2007-03-11 19:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by touchmeforever2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very very BAD idea...
Only safe multi partner sex is a 3some with him, you & another
girl that you must always invite...
Never ever swing, swap , have another man or couple in
your bed....You will destroy your marriage / relationship...
2007-03-11 19:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he lied and it's not ok with him!
If it is ok with him, he doesn't want to have sex with you and wants these other guys to take that burden from him. And if sex is a burden your relationship is already in trouble, you definitely don't need to go adding this to it.
NO!
2007-03-11 19:20:24 · answer #6 · answered by MissDixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it, because either a: he'll sleep with other women, assuming it's all good, or b: he'll get jealous and the relationship will be over, or c: he'll use it against you someday. NEVER A GOOD IDEA!!!
2007-03-11 19:15:56 · answer #7 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably done something like this himself and is trying to get u to do it too because he feels guilty
2007-03-11 19:17:23 · answer #8 · answered by chalebori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is very bad what if you get pregnant then he would be very angry and plus have it with him he'll get used to it.
2007-03-11 19:17:08 · answer #9 · answered by ~Paynt~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think thats a can of worms you seriously don't want to open.
2007-03-11 19:15:00 · answer #10 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please, please, please, don`t make love with another person.
If you do you aren`t in a real love with your husband but with sex. If I were yours I`ll try to make youm love from inside (do you know how?) it`s grater than ordinary sex. you have to stop wasting love everywhere, keep for your lonely Cowboy.
and he have to understand that he`s dead man without sex.
2007-03-11 19:32:22 · answer #11 · answered by moamz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋