So I went to the movies for the second time with this girl one of my friends knows in a group with a good couple of people. She's really nice and sweet and funny, and I like her alot. The thing is she's seeing someone right now. We were sitting beside each other during the movie and we were having a great time wispering about things and she put her head on my shoulder a few times throughout the movie, and I really felt like I should do... something like put my arm around her or something, but since she has a boyfriend I didnt know what to do so I did nothing and just let her rest her head on my shoulder. I had a great time and shes supposed to come with us next time we go too, but I donno, I dont feel like I should do anything to hurt their relationship but I really like her. Should I had done somthing or said anything when she did that? Or hey mabe Im really just looking to far into it?
2007-03-11 19:05:47 · 2 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Next time it happens, you should whisper "did you break up with that boyfriend yet?" and see what she says lol
You sound like a stand up guy. Doing nothing was the right thing to do. Continue to do nothing until she's free to date agian.
2007-03-11 19:10:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she looking to "trade up" depending on how old you are this might not be a bad thing, if you are in colledge or older (which I doubt) you will not want this type of relationship, if you are in Jr high/high its not a bad thing its very normal.
If you like her let her know that you will not be sad if she should break ties with her boyfriend and "hook up".
sounds like you to would have a great time.
again though if you are over 21, this should have been out grown and you dont want someone who will divorce you and trade up later.
2007-03-12 03:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by Blessed Rain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋