Every little thing I do for him seems to delight him.
He bounces over and gives me a giant hug! I spent a whopping 14 cents
at a discount bin store and got him fingernail clippers with a knife and a bottle opener.
He said he was tickled I had thought about him while I was out shopping.
So I guess, here comes the question...
He's the guy I got it bad for.
Do you think he's "catching on" considering all the hugging and sweet talk?
Would most guys know by now?
Especially considering he knows how stingy I am with a dime.
Oh, I picked nail clippers because he mentioned last week he needed a pair.
When I gave them to him, he said "Oh, good. I need to cut my toenails!"
I was like..."Don't let me see your feet!"
He said "You'd like my feet." (Is that flirting???)
{voice was sexy}
I just write kinda flowery so don't hold "delight","bounces", and "giant hug" against him..I write like a girl..damn..I am a girl..Well that explains that! And he's not gay.
2007-03-11 19:01:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like your story--it is a breath of fresh air from the usual idiotic stuff about boys who can't talk or can't ask a girl out or can't stop slapping a woman around. The thought of you recalling a small statement from a week ago shows a rare quality in a relationship----caring. Most people talk and the words go off into space--no respect, no caring---blah blah blah---just making noise. I hope this man also shows the attention you show--or at least tries...that is a truly nice bond---hope it lasts forever. The nice thing is it all sounds so natural--not at all forced--not a test---not a competition.I wish you the best--have fun and good luck---I wish I knew you--you sound like a real doll.
2007-03-11 19:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are completely in the right here and a very wise person. You and the children come first and that is just how is to be. It sounds like your husband needs to get into some counseling to help fight his demons. Hold your ground and put the stop sign right up in his face. You are not controlling but only trying to help and redirect your husband because you and the kid's truly love him and not his user friend's. The relationship that you have with your husband comes first above all others and you deserve to feel and know that he respects that. If he must see his friend allow it only in a controlled invironment. Have him over for dinner that includes you and the kid's. Things's change in a person's life and maybe the friend needs to see that? If you do not want to do this then you personally take the phone and let this guy know that your husband is busy with his home life and tending to his 3 children.
2016-03-29 01:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If nothing else, it sounds like he really does like you and he really does appreciate you. Whether he views you as a gf or just a good friend is something else. The only way to learn the truth is to have an open, honest conversation with him and don't be afraid to hear what you do not want to hear.
If he likes you and wants to be your girlfriend, he will tell you during your open, honest conversation. If he is not ready to be in a committed relationship but he likes you as a friend, you are still a winner to have such a caring friend.
I wish you both all the best!
2007-03-12 12:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by mgctouch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lmao, my boyfriend is really sweet that way too. Really cute. Got me a bag of chocolates the other day.
I say tell him. I'm assuming you want a more than friends relationship with him, right? The guys will never figure it out, even the smart ones don't. Even if you don't, I think you should tell him anyway. I did that with my boyfriend and a while after I told him, he asked me out.
2007-03-11 19:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by Natsumi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope - you're in the friend zone. A man that wants a woman dates and dines her. Not clips his toenails in front of her.
You sound, I picked up, like you don't or wouldn't believe that the one you liked liked you back. Am I off target? That may be how you slipped into the friend zone. Its ok to be girly - I'm trying to learn that too.
2007-03-11 19:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your looking for some kind of connection?? are you waiting for him to ask you out?
Find a way to get some time with him alone, just you two and see what happens. Let some personal stuff out about yourself and see if he does the same.
2007-03-11 19:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having someone think about you is always nice. Who wouldn't like that. Hugs are a pretty good sign. I'd say you are doing just fine, and yes foot talk is probably flirting.
Have fun!
2007-03-11 19:09:02 · answer #7 · answered by Rockvillerich 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, when the time is right you might want to pull him aside somewhere out of earshoot of eveyone else and just confront him in order to find out if the two of you are on the same page.
2007-03-11 19:06:43 · answer #8 · answered by AviTech 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a charmer.
Well if he doesn't like you, he at least likes flirting with you. It is sweet of you to pick up on his little needs and he most likely appreciates someone paying attention. He may also like not having to shop for himself, not having to spend his own money.
2007-03-11 19:10:32 · answer #9 · answered by T esira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabey he thinks it's friendly flirting! let him know how you feel now or it may never be more than friendly flirting! guys are not thinking about sex 100 percent of the time just about 98 percent. mabey those hugs are come in at those 2 percent times
2007-03-11 19:06:25 · answer #10 · answered by Bill P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋