He always wants me to give him a ride and go to the store for him. He already has a car and money. He's 30 and I am 21. I told him I was getting married and he acted like he got upset and said I was ruining my life. He seems like he would be an eligible candidate to go out with. We have never been anything more than just friends. At the same time talks about other girls around me. Just weird.......... He's sending me mixed signals and I need this to stop ASAP. Thanks in advance:)
2007-03-11 18:59:41 · 9 answers · asked by time4achange 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think he's showing that he's interested in you but want to as well check or see how you are feeling toward him. It's like he's showing all these mixed signals to test how you're responding to him. If you appear to be interested as well, then he may send you the right signal or else many guys will just say you're thinking too much or he's just teasing you around so he doesn't have to look bad. But if you're going to get married, you should really stop talking to this guy so your future husband won't have hard feelings.
2007-03-11 19:10:48 · answer #1 · answered by ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay well
#1 Hes lazy so getting you to do things for him solves that
#2 Hes cheap ur spending your gas money on him
#3 You should know hes interested in you if he does things for you not you for him
Conclusion: The guys a bum ditch him and find a better guy
2007-03-11 19:12:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as I see it, he wants his cake and he wants to eat it too. If he's getting you to run errands for him and drive him around but at the same time talks about other girls then you are not someone he is actually pursuing.
Stay with the guy you are engaged to... you're probably better off!
2007-03-19 16:54:45 · answer #3 · answered by THATgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is jealous that your getting married and not going to be things for him. I think that you should sit down and talk to him, ask him why he said that you are ruining his life.
2007-03-19 15:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by Patricia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any dude that talks about other chix while with someone they profess to having feelings for is:
A. Trying to impress you w/ his powers of chauvenistic observations.
B. Attempting to show you how utterly "cool" he is.
C. Trying to get over on you, now or in the future.
2007-03-19 18:58:55 · answer #5 · answered by LuckyJack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him no you cant do it....or be nice and make up things you have to do.If he likes you he wont want to be away from you and will have to tell you how he feels.Absence makes the heart grow fonder unless you really want him then ask. If your getting married why do you care ??hhmmm..lol
2007-03-19 18:17:51 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is so taking advantage of you and your kindness. He definitely does not like you because if he does then he will spoil you and not make you do his stuff. Even if you think he likes you, get rid of him as soon as you can because he is a moocher and a lazy person who doesnt deserve someone like you.
2007-03-19 01:43:29 · answer #7 · answered by Lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's just getting you to do that stuff cause he knows you will. Don't be such a pushover. your not his personal assistant
2007-03-19 17:40:48 · answer #8 · answered by tarakootenay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has a car but does he have a license? this sounds too wierd, run while you can!
2007-03-19 08:27:56 · answer #9 · answered by smartie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋