We went out for 3 years, she told me that she wanted some time to be by herself and not have a boyfriend. She said she loves me, wants us to be together in the future.Then i find out she is with some other guy, when i ask her about it, she totally denied it. Is she scared. Advice please
2007-03-11 18:52:04 · 11 answers · asked by yep 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is probably not what you want to hear, but she probably wanted to go out with this guy, and if it doesn't work out she wants to go back with you. Basically she is keeping you on the back burner in case she needs you. No matter what, she is being deceptive to you. You need to decide if you really want to wait for someone who is lying to you.
2007-03-11 18:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This 'new guy' you found out about could just be a fling to her or a crush, or just a really good guy friend whom she is hanging out with at the moment.
Dont get carried away with this until you see actual proof she's with another man, that they are holding hands and kissing, and even then she could be just dating and not having anything serious. She could be rebounding.
But the thing is, she hid it from you (if there realyl is a man) because she's afriad it would hurt your feelings. She also doesnt want to come off as a liar by saying she didnt want anyone, and then went and got somone.
Basically she broke this relationship off because she wanted to see how things went with other people and if there still ever could be a relationship later on with you.
2007-03-12 02:00:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a woman "lies and denies" it's time to move on my friend. Don't look back. She is not attracted to you anymore. Hence the other guy. Sorry but a relationship has a "life span". You had your time with her, now move on to another. Don't waste your money on "how to get your ex back." It's over. Get over her and meet other woman. Someone who will worship you. She is out there.
2014-09-26 14:52:50 · answer #3 · answered by Bubabyte 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must get your facts straight before anything. you don't know if she's just friends with the guy or if it's just a rumor or what. when you find out for sure and she is lying to you. she knows those 3 years were special to you and she have you waiting and she's afraid to tell you she's moved on. but that doesn't stop you from moving on to.
2007-03-12 02:00:00 · answer #4 · answered by twan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe....maybe she's scared to tell it to you because she don't want to hurt you... maybe she broke with you because of this guy and their been having relationship while you and she is still on.. so maybe to be fair she leave you and she gave a wrong details why she end up your relationship....
2007-03-12 02:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by rhean s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's lying she got another guy and does not want u to know.
2007-03-12 02:10:09 · answer #6 · answered by kevo m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mm, yes, she hoped you wouldnt find out. and now that she knows that you know that shes moved on, she doesnt want to lose you. so basically, she wants her new relationship, but wants to keep tabs on you if that other one fails.
if your gut tells you its bad, please just move on. it will save so many tears in the long run.
my best wishes to you.
2007-03-12 01:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She just doesn't want you to go crazy on her or hunt them down in an empty parking lot and kill them!
2007-03-12 01:56:10 · answer #8 · answered by Bill P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well she probably is lying to u cuz she wants u as a rebound guy when this guy breaks up with her
2007-03-12 01:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by Monica V 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mmmm..not good for you man in the future if you are to
continue with this girl......so....just move on...... if you take her back do expect another backstabbing again. your call.
2007-03-12 02:03:21 · answer #10 · answered by Roberto D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋