My boyfriend and I have been going out for a month and we have known each other for a year. We spend a lot of time together and I have fallen for him hard. He tells me he loves me. I am waiting for marriage and he knows this. He has had sex before and he respects the fact that I want to wait. The other night things got out of hand and he started to move my hand down towards his "area" and he started to "dry hump" me. Afterwards I felt bad and then he felt bad seeing as how I felt. He has told me that he honestly wants to have sex, because he is a male, but because he loves me he doesn't want to have sex until I am ready (obviously that would be marriage). Is it unfair for me to expect or hope that he will wait for me? It it unfair for us to "cuddle" and "makeout" because it could/would make him frustrated? Honest opinions much appreciated. Thanks!
2007-03-11 18:50:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is definitely not unfair for you to make him wait. It sounds like he loves you and wants to wait. Just understand that sometimes things get a little carried away. If he doesn't understand that you get uncomfortable with certain things, then he is not the guy for you.
2007-03-11 20:01:30 · answer #1 · answered by BRAINS! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋