I'm dating someone now, Im sure that I'm in love with him but the thing is I think he's still in love with his ex. He can't even tell other people that they are totally over 2 months ago. Though he's telling me that he loves me but it seems like I cannot be totally part of his life.
2007-03-11 18:04:57 · 19 answers · asked by icene_06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No because theres no use in trying 2 win someones affections if his intentions were already elsewhere in the first place. Dont settle for second best, you deserve way better move on.
I know its hard but your doing a favour, cause even if you did try the battle is already lost because hes already turning the other cheek.
Dont settle for 2nd best, move on and find someone who will put you first in their life.
Wish u all the best & good luck
take it easy mate
2007-03-11 18:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to cool it for a while--until he is surely over the ex---it could take months--do you want to date for the next 6 months--knowing he is probably thinking of the ex??You will never know--so instead of all the displeasure and bad thoughts--go find someone else and let this guy have some time--if it is meant to be--it will be. You said it yourself--you don't feel like it is a total thing with him--it isn't so move on---if not--stay and be miserable--it is your choice--and not a hard one.... have a nice life---good luck
2007-03-12 01:11:42 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going thru the same thing. I know it totally sux, but know that no matter how long you were with someone or what the circumstances were of the breakup, you will always have a place in your heart for them. If he is still seeing and talking to her, then you've got a problem. If he talks about her a lot to you, I would walk until he gets his priorities straight and realizes its over. Good luck!
2007-03-12 01:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by tinkerbell_pixy24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, as hard as it would be, I could not waste my energy on someone who was still hung up on someone else. You could be spending your time with a guy who really WANTS you. I wouldn't want the ex thing always hanging over the relationship. What if she decides she wants him back? Where will that leave you? Do yourself and him a favor and move on.
2007-03-12 01:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by Miss D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why beat a dead horse to death, the fight is already over. He`s not ready to commit to someone else yet, it may take a long time. Move on. If he gets his act together and u r not committed in the future, u can always try again.
2007-03-12 01:52:40 · answer #5 · answered by flamingo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa. You got problems down the road, d'ahling. He can't tell other people that he and his ex are over? That ain't even right; it's as if he's ashamed of you.
You do deserve someone who isn't afraid to let the world know you are his woman.
2007-03-12 01:09:33 · answer #6 · answered by brotherb95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying, but there is a point where you need to just give up.
Try talking to him, telling him your feelings and let him express his. Let him know that he can tell you anything. If he doesn't take it seirously, loose the guy! But talking about it is the best thing you can do instead of makeing the decition on your own.
2007-03-12 01:11:31 · answer #7 · answered by flutesp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.
if he still longs to get back with her, then why would you want to be with him? he's using you or rather settling for you, because he can't have the girl he wants. move on, you deserve better. let him pine over his ex alone, he'll soon realize what a fool he's been. remember that there are plenty of great guys out there in the world. don't sell yourself short.
2007-03-12 01:13:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pray about it, do you want to give your whole self to a man who only gives you half of himself? Ask yourself these questions and itwill be easier to make your decision. If she came back around and showed interest..by him being into her (still) do you think he would say No, I can't do that with you..(To her) or fall for her (tricks) if you think he may still fall for her then you have to be careful and guard your heart.
2007-03-12 01:11:14 · answer #9 · answered by Queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your gut feeling. If you think he's not over her and you can't seem to be part of his life, then you're absolutely right and move on. Let him go.
2007-03-12 01:13:13 · answer #10 · answered by Lana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋