2007-03-11 17:32:48 · 9 answers · asked by Benjamin P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all the negative things she says to your girlfriend you tell her the positive , if she wants to cry ..be there for her .. Tell her ..your mom is missing out on a beautiful soul .
She'll be hurt so comfort her and hug her wounds away . grab a blanket and wrap it around the 2 of you and tell her you love her and be there for her.
she will be emotionally hurt, cuddle and take away the hurt . tell her to take the blanket home and say .when I can't be there to mend your hurts this blanket will be my arms around you comforting you . or give her a sweater of yours to wear for comfort and make sure it smells like you ..it will feel that your close or with her .
her mom clearly doesn't love her, give her the love she needs .
When you have the blanket cuddle time ..that will be her safe place the next time she sees you and it'll fell good to her thinking about your next cuddle time.
it'll give her warmth.
one night take her to the movies with the blanket..wrap her up and tell her no one that can hurt you will find us here .
Make her feel loved!
she needs it
2007-03-11 17:43:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend is having problems with her mom, don't try to "fix" it. The best action you can take is to LISTEN.
In difficult circumstances, most people want to be really heard and understood.
If you have to say something, ask what, if anything, you can do to help. If there is something she needs, this is the best way for her to tell you.
In the end, she has to work this out for herself. Sometimes, caring about someone means supporting them while they work through their stuff.
Stand by her, support her by listening, and show her that she has a caring partner.
BTW-if being treated like **** means any type of physical abuse, you girlfriend needs to let someone in authority know.
2007-03-12 00:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by LV-Therapist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out somewhere nice, buy her flowers or something and tell her it's gonna be okay. Get her outta the house so she is away from her mom.
2007-03-12 00:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow @ the your mom's missing out on a beautiful soul !!!!
I see the movie theatre idea ! make her forget the outside world and just breathe with you and get lost in a movie !
keera your awesome!!!!!!!!
your loved one must be lucky!
2007-03-12 00:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by Planet22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg keera that is soooo beautiful !!!!!!
I tried that and my girflriend loved it and made her feel so much better! she is going through hard times and she feels loved!
questioner keera has a great heart like you do for your girlfriend !! she is lucky to have you!
thank you keera
2007-03-12 00:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by Kara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank goodness she's nothing like her mom
2007-03-12 00:36:01 · answer #6 · answered by beenabytch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow @ keera's answer
benjamin there's your best answer.
i would love it if someone gave me a blanket snuggles moment !
too beautiful !
2007-03-12 00:51:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her out, get her some goodies and make her happy.
2007-03-12 00:35:49 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you love her.
2007-03-12 00:37:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋