my gf and i were arguing about my computer she rented for me, because she destroyed my other one, she did so after a night out, she was drunk, and we were at a club, and she bent over so some guy could take apic of her @$$, then was hanging all over and walking around with another guy, and i was so hurt and stunned i was in shock, in passing when sh e was hanging all over another guy, i said ''will you quit acting like a slut pls, you are being inappropriate'' not only did she continue, but she left with a car full of guys(her the only girl) and i showed up at home after the sun came up, and was yelling and screaming at ME for calling her slutty!!! and the bashed my computer.... WTF?! who WOULDNT call her slutty and inappropriate??? im still in shock when i think about it...im angry, but moreso hurt.... she says she didnt do anything wrong and that it was mildly inconsiderate at most...weve been togather 5 years and have a child.... thoughts please...i need advice and support,imhurting
2007-03-11 17:24:08 · 8 answers · asked by beatdown 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry, i went home....in shock and nearly in tears...SHE showed up about an hour after the sun came up...
2007-03-11 17:26:28 · update #1
i need to settle down? im not the one acting like a depraved gutter slut and breaking computers...
2007-03-11 20:58:55 · update #2
i need to settle down? im not the one acting like a depraved gutter slut and breaking computers...
2007-03-11 21:11:31 · update #3
i'm not going 2 do anythng 2 the guy, im not in a relationship with him....he has no commitment to me...
2007-03-11 21:13:04 · update #4
Fact from fiction, truth from diction. When fun can not be had without alcohol or chemicals, stupidity can sure arise. Then, it was maybe something she thought of doing. Maybe after 5 years she was thinking either the spice has gone out of your relationship or that you don't see her as that sexy anymore and had to get it from them butt nugget guys. They say there is nothing more honest than a drunk person, because they lose the poker face and all the bluff.
Now calling her a s*** in front of those other guys she wanted to look cool to, may have made the problem worse. Because she had to show she was in control so she may have gone further with it just to porive a point or maybe get even because you saying it in the open embarrassed her. You should have got her away out of earshot of the nuggets and then told her. That is whay when she showed up she was fuming and bashed your computer. She was more embarrassed about being called a s*** then she was about possibibly being wrong about the way she acted. And you in a sense punked her in public so she will get defensive, and not admit she was wrong.
Defuse the situation. Apologize for pulling her covers in open forum but ask her how she would feel if it were you there at the club touching some other girl's "milkshake" or "junk in the trunk" and having her hang all over you leaving lipstick kisses on your cheek? Maybe if she can see it from your perspective she will see how her's effected you. Then after showing her in that fashion say you think she owes you an apology.
2007-03-18 20:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She effed up big time. I don't know about the name-calling on your part but I can understand how you would be shattered about her behavior. If you can't sit her down and work it out, it's time for you to get out of that relationship. After five years together, there is no way that she should be behaving that way. I would have been thinking the same thing you did and if I had been drinking and I saw my gf do that, I probably would've lost it and shoved that guys camera up his @ss. But like I say, you gotta try and sit her down and talk it out. She needs to settle down (you do too) because you have a child together. That is no way for a mother to act. I would stay out of the club for a long, long time.
2007-03-11 20:23:35 · answer #2 · answered by BRAINS! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a Big Problem, and the way she is acting is Slutty. You need to dump her and try to get Custody of your child. She does not need to be raised by a Mother acting this way. Get rid of her before she breaks more than your Computer.
2007-03-19 15:31:56 · answer #3 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy shouldn't might want to settle on from any particular stereotype. And as well, your question leaves out fairly some different extra effective ideas. If a woman would not dress sloppily, cares about herself adequate to care about how she seems, yet would not bypass overboard or dress to electrify then i'm advantageous with it. It would not even might want to be call variety, merely something that would want to fall lower than the time period outstanding.
2016-10-17 11:45:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that you are having so much trouble in your relationship. Save yourself and get out. You can still help to raise your baby. At least take a break and think about it. You deserve to be happy.
2007-03-19 15:38:05 · answer #5 · answered by nerby79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would either get some couples counciling or just get rid of her if she's always going to be geting naked for other men!! cause that is slutty!
2007-03-19 15:52:49 · answer #6 · answered by Lelia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop her, kick her to the curb and never come back, she really is a slut if she does all these things. in my opinion, she doesn't deserve a child, you on the other hand are apparently more responsible
2007-03-19 12:41:04 · answer #7 · answered by Jennie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
GRAB YOUR $H!T AND RUN!!! GET AWAY FROM HER WHILE YOU STILL CAN!!!
2007-03-19 17:27:59 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋