Help Friend died?

Question

My friend died two days ago from drugs and substance abuse and I really miss her I ust to go over her house everyday almost for like 3 years straight and now shes gone and I need help like everytime I think about it at night time I cry its hard to belive someone could lose and risk there lived of drugs ... and I guess I just need someone to give me encouraging thoughts because it seems like anymore my life sucks my brother died at work my other best friend died of Meningitius My brother was hit by a car my father is terriably sick with his heart and now this sometimes I think im going to be next and I ahte that feeling I guess its true you never know what you got till its gone please people try to help me

Answer 1

I know how you feel. In my line of work I deal with death often. I have had family, friends, and co-workers die. You still can not belive it. Do something in memory of your friend. Also talk to a mental health prrofessional such as a psychologist. I did and they can really help. There is no shame in gettiong help. Please remember that life really is not as bad as you feel. Things will work out it just takes time.
Best Of Luck To You!

Answer 2

wow. You need to talk to someone. If you don't have close friends or your mom or something then maybe you should talk to a doctor. He can give you stuff to calm down for a while. You need to be calm thru this terrible time. I don't know how old you are but you need something. I'm older and lately I pray a lot. It seems to be quite comforting. I try my best to take one day at a time. Live for the day. If that doesn't work then live for the hour. Take naps if you can to escape. Try playing music. This usually lifts people up when they are really down. You really need to talk with someone though. If you are religious go to the church and speak to someone there. If not then if you're in school go to the counselors. That's what they are there for. Things will get better. You're just having a tough time in your life right now. Even if your not religious, try praying. I'm not a religeon freak or anything. I just plain got super desperate and I don't have anything or anybody left to turn to. So I'm trying the prayer thing. I don't know if its working but I sure do feel a lot more at ease. Wish I could be of more help. Keep your chin up.

Answer 3

Life can be pretty ****** up sometimes. A friend of mine died last year from a drug overdose and real nice kid I went to high school with just died in a car crash. I feel like part of me died with them. Over the summer I got real depressed from medication and trying understand why the **** people have to go through such terrible things and honestly felt no purpose to keep living. I hated the way the world works. How the things I love and live for don't really seem to matter in the larger scheme of things. How you can sit there and laugh all night with someone and the next day they're gone. The thing that you have to accept and anticipate is that life will always throw a nasty curve at you when you least expect it. You have to wait for it. For me, the thing that keeps me alive is love. Nothing in this world can be as magnificant to have and terrible to lose. I live for it. I search desperately for it. I grab it and hold on to it as long as I can. Even though I know I might lose it tomorrow or two seconds from now the risk is worth it. You're a smart and extremely brave girl, and you have an appreciation now for things like friends and family that allot of people never get the chance to. Always make sure you live on the edge your seat. Use the pain of your loss as fuel to make yourself a stronger person and find your passion. Please please don't let it bring you down like I almost did. I know I really have no idea what troubles you've gone through, but I do know what it's like to feel like the whole world is coming out to just to **** me up. You still got friends and people who would love to see you grab this ***** by the horns. There's allot of good out there you just gotta find it and hold on. I pray this helped you a least a little, and I'm really sorry you had to go through all that. If you ever need someone to talk to write to me at: [e-mail]

Answer 4

sweety thats terrible for you, i am so sorry for you and having to face such an array difficult times and close losses. As hard as it must be to adjust in life try to think that those ppl you loved who have passed away are in a far better place and will continue to guide you in your life and will always be in your heart. And coping with a parents illness is hard when they've been a strong figure, speaking from recent experience here so not sure if rs exactly the same but all you can do is be there to support them as much as u able and pray for a healthy recovery for them....
you'll make it through these times though and you won't be next and these things as hard as they are now will help to make you the person that u'll become, as hard as it is, try to stay as positive as u can.

Answer 5

Chelsea:

Honey, first of all I am sending you a big ol' hug!! I hope you felt that. Now take some deep breaths and stop crying for a minute. I can totally relate to what you are saying as I too have lost way too many people in my life over the past several years. However, I am learning that with life comes death and we will never understand this ever. What we can do is to remember each person in our life as they were when they were happy and healthy. I know regarding your friend apparently things were not always good for her, but surely there were times when the two of you laughed and that is what you need to focus on. Try to always remember all of those good times with each one of them. Now with respect to your Daddy, honey, spend as much time with him as possible. It will do you both good. I was a Daddy's girl and my Daddy died when I was 19 years old and WOW did that hurt. But now I wish so many times that I had spent more time with him when he was sick and dying. He died of cancer in 1978. I don't know your age, but I just know that you have to keep on living for all those people who have gone before you. You must make them proud of you and show them that their deaths were not in vain and that you kept their memories alive in your heart. It is alright to cry and mourn but it is better to remember the good times and smile and go on, because that is what each of them would want you to do. Now, go wash your face, say a prayer and then hit the sack. After all, tomorrow is another day and you have been blessed to have had all these wonderful people in your life. God Bless!!!

Answer 6

This makes you wonder how much one person can endure, but keep strong. You are grieving for your friend right now and need lots of love and support. There are many support groups around, I wish I could give you a hug, just to let you know people do care. Cry as much as can, it lets alot out, and prayer can be very soothing and powerful. Realise that you cannot bring anyone back, they have gone to a better, peaceful place. My prayers and thoughts are with you

Answer 7

I know how hard it when you lose someone dare to you and it even harder when in a time frame you lose more of your love ones but no matter what hap pends you have to keep going and remember God has other planes for you and if you ever need to talk you can reach me at [e-mail]

Answer 8

I wish I could come give you a hug. These are just terrible things to have happened in your young life. You won't be next. Just make the right choices. I am thinking about you.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

That's very unpleasant for you that you lost your friend. Everything comes to an end so always smile. Smile while you're alive! There is no 2nd chance in life!