ok so my bf wrote me a note saying if i loved him or just like him but we have only been going out week! i dont "love" him but i dont just like him either and i dont know what to write back and i dont want to hurt his feelings! HELP! thanks!
2007-03-11 17:11:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him that it's too early to know if you love him or not. Let him know, that yes, you do like him a lot, though.
2007-03-11 17:15:52 · answer #1 · answered by JessicaLouise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that he is one of the few very special people in your life right now, that you don't know rather what your feeling is love or not but you do know that you have never had that particular feeling for anyone else before. That'll make his head spin. How old r u by the way?
2007-03-11 17:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is a good question. you have been dating him for a week you still aren't sure of you're feelings yet I understand that but you should tell him to take it easy it's still you're first week don't say things to hurt his feelings, but don't say things you aren't sure of tell him the truth that it's too early to tell if he doesn't understand you should probably call it off.TELL HIM THE TRUTH AND DONT HURT YOURSELF (you're happiness comes before anything and anyone.)
2007-03-11 17:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM HE'S VERY SPECIAL TO U & MAKES U FEEL GOOD & U LUV BEING WITH HIM BUT IF U WANT TO FEEL REAL LOVE FOR SOM1 IT'LL TAKE ALOT LONGER THAN A WEEK! IF HE WANTS U TO REALLY MEAN IT WHEN U SAY IT, HE'S GOTTA WAIT!
DONT LET HIM MAKE U FEEL PRESSURISED FOR AN ANSWER OK? THAT WOULDNT BE FAIR ON U :)
2007-03-11 17:18:25 · answer #4 · answered by tupac4evaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Him that. Tell Him that you dont quite love him yet, but you are really good friends, and that you just need more time with him, He'll understand
2007-03-11 17:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by shalini s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. Tell him that it's more than just liking him, but that it's too soon for you to say you love him. Tell him you really care about him, and you you feel like this relationship could work out.
One week is too soon for that.
2007-03-11 17:15:58 · answer #6 · answered by Edith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he is a good person but you aren't in love with him.
2007-03-11 17:15:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you more than like him. being in love takes time. give yourself time to grow on each other. just enjoy each other's company.
2007-03-11 17:15:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋