it was today and he never said anything
2007-03-11 16:54:27 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its 10 at night so im definitely guessing theres no suprise. and he's had reminders all week from people saying "dude lindsay's birthday is sunday dont forget"
2007-03-11 17:14:47 · update #1
we've been dating since november
2007-03-11 17:20:57 · update #2
Oh, these people, my father-in-law has been happily married for over 30 years, and I always have to remind him when it's his wife's birthday. Call your boyfriend up and say something like."You missed my birthday and I was really hoping that we could something fun together" I wouldn't get mad at him over it, don't play games with the heart if you care about this person. By the way, Happy Birthday, I'm a Pisces too. Perhaps you could plan a trip to the beach or the lake next weekend to celebrate your birthday, do something that you enjoy, even if it's just taking in a movie or something. Good thing us Pisces are not materoalistic people. Once again Happy Birthday=)'
2007-03-11 17:20:56 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always forget birthdays, he didn't do it on purpose you should have given a subtle reminder before hand.
Don't be a typical woman and beat him up about it, I am sure he will feel awful enough that he forgot it.
Show him a birthday card or something you got, he will then get the hint and do something.
2007-03-12 00:00:22 · answer #2 · answered by Not Tellin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might leave a hint...like sobbing over a birthday cake when he comes by next time. Or casually sort through a stack of birthday cards next time you two are hanging out, in a coffee shop. Or stage a parade of friends and relatives to walk by, all wishing you "Happy Birthday" as they do so.
Or pelting him with x-number of candles (as befits your age) the next time he asks you what's new is also a good hint....your discretion if the candles should be lit or not.
2007-03-11 23:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband has forgotten my birthday before and we're been married for over 3 years. I let him know when he forgets it. There's just so much stuff in some peoples life that they have a hard time remembering.. I'd sit down with him and remind him and also explain that you were ?hurt? by this..
2007-03-12 00:01:42 · answer #4 · answered by goldenkizzez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your serious about this guy and it really upset you then yes say something. You should give it a couple days to think about first though and if your still mad say something. If your not mad after a few days and you guys are getting along good just forget about it. It may cause more problems if you say something if it really didn't bother you. Plus if you guys end up together he'll figure it out himself.
2007-03-12 00:00:12 · answer #5 · answered by melfred_20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend forgotten my birthday once too. I knew he was busy With exams so i just stay mum - never mentioned a thing, and i just went out and have fun with my relatives. One day later he realized by himself that he had forgotten my birthday, made his apologies, "reimbursed" me for my "loss", and never forgot it anymore after that. Now he is the one that is reminding me!
2007-03-12 00:04:38 · answer #6 · answered by Raven Hood® 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been together? If it is a new relationship then I would let it go. If you have been together for a long time and he should have known it was your birthday then you have reason to be upset. I'm sure he will remember soon and feel really bad.
2007-03-12 00:04:52 · answer #7 · answered by NRM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just drop hints, be like "today was a special day..." or something like that. Or just tell him it was your birthday. Don't worry, my boyfriend did that too, but i 'reminded' him and he made up for it by taking me out for dinner. =)
By the way, happy birthday!
2007-03-11 23:59:25 · answer #8 · answered by female optimus prime. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should say something, especially if it is important to you that he remembers...
Most guys need gentle reminders about birthdays and annviversaries...They don't think about those things the way we do...They don't do it on purpose or to be vindictive in anyway...
2007-03-11 23:58:52 · answer #9 · answered by JesJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has a surprise! But if he did forgot or didn't know when your birthday is tell him before you dump him. He may have a very good reason why he forgot!
2007-03-11 23:58:44 · answer #10 · answered by 4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋