He was always calling me or textin me to see where i was and who was with me.. It's like he couldn't trust me or something. Help Me Please!!
2007-03-11 16:52:15 · 10 answers · asked by Maria 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, if you couldn't take it anymore, get out of the relationship. but if you really like him and being away from him will make you miserable, have a heart-to-heart talk with him. ask him to trust you so that you won't feel constrained. show him also that you love him and you are loyal to him. he only needs assurance that you will remain his love.
2007-03-11 16:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's controlling get out of the relationship and tell your friends about it in case he happens to be one of those nutty people. Is there a reason for him not to trust you? Have you tried doing the same thing back to him? Is this the beginning of your relationship?
2007-03-11 23:59:17 · answer #2 · answered by Sagira Tadashi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a relationship both parties need to be able to trust one another. With out trust your relationship will not wrk. Also he is probally controling because he feels in secure with himself. Don't take on his issues when there are so many better men out there. You also need to keep in mind that controlling men have the possiblitity to turn violent. My advise to you is to let him go and find someone better.
2007-03-12 00:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by rio1_2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run, run, run. Living a life with a controller is Hell. The next step after controller is stalker. This is experience talking.
2007-03-12 00:01:07 · answer #4 · answered by Beckers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run, nobody needs to be put in that situation. You could always talk to him, tell him that you don't appreciate his controlling ways. But you really don't need to put up with someone that is that way. It sounds to me like he has some real self confidence issues.
2007-03-11 23:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by Jbr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run, controllers seldom recover.
2007-03-11 23:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away people like that never change its just a circle. It never gets better. Just move on you deserve better.
2007-03-11 23:56:11 · answer #7 · answered by melfred_20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok beleive it or not but u made him that way, little things u say and do influence his behavior so when u say he cant trust u its cus u made him think that show him he can trust u then watch as he loosens his grip
2007-03-11 23:57:26 · answer #8 · answered by mxbadboy89 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you just answered your own question.its not that he doesnt trust you,HE'S CONTROLLING DUH!!!!! so of course he's going to do all those things to manipulate you and MAKE you come back.if you like being someones puppet ,then by all means go back!!!!!
2007-03-12 00:02:29 · answer #9 · answered by mrs.dynomite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh god run away as far and as fast as you can please oh please believe me he will hunt you and never let you go and pretty soon he'll imagine you're cheating and he'll beat you up and please just get the hell out while you can honey listen to me i really know what i am talking about
2007-03-11 23:58:06 · answer #10 · answered by Stormy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋