I've been sleeping with this girl lately. We don't want a relationship, and not that I feel guilty or anything.. but it makes me wonder,.. how come I can't seem to find a girl that is interesting? I actually want to be able to relate to a girl, spend time with them, do things together. All the girls that try talking to me are just.. plain. They're only interested in drinking and partying. They can't hold up an interesting conversation without constantly digressing and having their mind wander. I like to get out there and do things, and if I ask them what they like to do, they say, "umm well.. I like to hang out with my friends" Well that's great. Then they get all surprised when I suddenly stop talking to them.
Where are the elegant, sophisticated, good-natured women? Does this depend on location? Age? (I'm 18). Is it best to just wait a few years until maybe someone compatible comes along? Not just a partner either, where are the ppl I can have good friendships with too?
2007-03-11 16:47:48 · 8 answers · asked by brian 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BTW, I do not go to parties. Sorry if I did not make that clear.
2007-03-11 17:01:15 · update #1
maybe u should stop hanging around the partying crowd and find her in the classroom, do u got to college? if so then do that as well as go to different events that are offered at the college. Your bound to meet new people that way. Join a club that's of similar interest to you. If all else fails then wait or look for older women, most of them won't start maturing until maybe 25 if ever, at this age of 18, most guys and girls are reckless, vague, and one-sided, with barely any personalities except for the fact that they like to party, drink, and consequently gain beer bellies. =D
2007-03-11 16:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by oLeSi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt be sleeping around with a girl, especialy at 18 if you dont have feeligns for her. Dont ******* sleep with her. Thats about the bigest complement/statment/action that you can make in a relationship and your trying to just do it without one. Casual sex is one of the worst things you could posibly do. Besides all that, the just screwing around is taking away from getting to know women. There gonna seem bland and boring if you dont get to know them, talk to them, and treat them like a person. your 18. Stop sleeping around. Then look for a relationship.
2007-03-12 00:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by sasukechaos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In college, at church, through a friend? Maybe, try dating someone older. However, most people your age are into partying and getting drunk every night! I did that back in the day. However, don't give up...she might show up when you least expect it. Just be happy and keep doing what you enjoy doing.
2007-03-12 00:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep 18 is younge most girls are just that girls, you want a women and thy are a bit older, doesn't mean you can't find her just work on finding her though and quit just sleeping with girls unless it means something, most females in the world want a guy who hasn't slepted with half of the girls he's ever met.
2007-03-11 23:53:17 · answer #4 · answered by Cjara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem so nice and if that is really you in the photo you will not have any problem. Just remember what you choose is what you get. There are lots of girls out there who do not party and have character. I am one of them. So sorry, you are mighty young for me.
Good Luck with this.
2007-03-11 23:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look around - stop talking to the dummies and look for smart women who have a brain! They're out there!
2007-03-11 23:50:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try looking somewhere besides parties....
2007-03-11 23:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by Sagira Tadashi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my pants
2007-03-11 23:52:53 · answer #8 · answered by isuckatphysics 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋